β β πβ β COLLECTIVE INFOβ β ππ
βγ we are a layer in the pupitskiz system
βγ we mostly use exclusive ramcoa terms
βγ our collective name β kenne1 β can be pronounced ken-ne-une / ken-ne-one or kennel ,, but do not spell our name as β kennel β
βγ our layer is fronting the most as of writing this
βγ we are not the main system ,, antipupitskiz is
βγ most of the people on our layer are NPD holders so we say our layer collectively has NPD
βγ a lot of us are pathological liars . do not scold us if you catch us in a lie
βγ we dont tolerate cluster b slander ,, especially people who believe in β narc abuse β
β β πβ β COLLECTIVE BOUNDARIESβ β ππ
βγ do not send us any links that are ramcoa related ,, do not ask about details regarding ramcoa and do not ask about our trauma . just because we are a ramcoa system doesnt mean you get to treat us any differently than any other system .
βγ dont ask us if you can use a number name / have ramcoa trauma / etc . talk to a professional if you suspect something ,, dont dig ,, and do not seek validation from other ramcoa survivors
βγ do not call our layer iris / pupette / antipupitskiz or any other names antipupitskiz uses . if youre unaware someone in our layer is fronting its fine but please dont call us the wrong names .
βγ ask before touching / sending touch emojis
βγ don't ping us . if it's important seperate pings . friends can override this ! the color and notifications frustrate us and make us less likely to reply to you out of frustration .
βγ nicknames ,, dms and friend requests are all fine ! we are collectively very social people and enjoy interaction
βγ dont use any terms / roles we use on so without asking first . a lot of the ones our layer uses are ones that are ramcoa exclusive ( credits to k9 for most of our ramcoa terms ) or were made by us .
βγ ask before flirting . genuinely ask as akward as that may feel ,, a lot of us cant tell tone or will just assume u are flirting with us .
βγ dont bring drama we dont know about up to us unless it is actually important . we dont need to know everything that has happened to us as a collective . telling us about certain things will do way more harm than good