DNI & IWC
A more detailed description of things to think about before interacting with me/us
DNI
- Basic DNI.
- Alcoholic (DNI if you are constantly drunk or not sober in any way)
- Including interacting with me when not sober.
- This is because
- I get incredibly worried abt something happening to someone drunk.
- I get uncomfortable with the way people act differently and
- I wouldn't be able to join in on the fun due to not be able to drink bc of meds.
- This is because
- Including interacting with me when not sober.
- You make fun out of people with Autism or ADHD (or any other diagnosis).
- If you have more than 2 self diagnoses
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IWC ( interact with caution )
- Anti-endos.
- This is not in my/our dni because we respect others opinions but we don't wish to argue about it.
BYI ( before you interact )
- Please understand I/we are a system,
- Read more about this HERE.
- Be aware I am very flirty and am still learning to use tone tags.
- If I make you uncomfortable, please tell me.
- I don't like talking shit about people behind their back, take your drama somewhere else.
- Mind. Your. Own. Business. Unless I asked you for advice;
- please do not try to tell me what I should do with my life.
- I am not your therapist. Yes, I am fine with listening to vents but I am bad at comforting.
- Therefor, I advice you to go to someone who can actually help you.
- I do not have that much of a DNI as I am understanding and do not like judgement.
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SYSTEM BOUNDARIES
Leave the littles alone. I am very protective of them. Do not flirt with every alter, not everyone is ok with it. If they havent met you: they do not know you. Get to know them if you wish to seem friendly. Do not ask why they are a certain way or how they were created.
BYI - SYSTEM
Ask before touching any of the littles (Sora, Vix, Lucille or Lucen). Lucille & Lucen are semiverbal. Most of the alters are very quiet at first as they aren't comfortable with using the body's voice, and get really nervous about being outside of the headspace/inner world. Be aware everyone could have different triggers, I don't know the alters in our system enough to be able to tell you what some of them are yet, so be causious.