Milo's askbox boundaries
RetroSpring: Cretaria
NeoSpring: Kreideprinz
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⊹ About Me ⊹
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Hello, my name is Milo. You may also refer to me as Miette or Chantilly. I am an autistic person with ADHD and Dissociative Identity Disorder. These conditions impact almost every aspect of my life, so please be kind and patient with me! I have other conditions, but they are unlisted as I find revealing them to be quite unnecessary.
I am from the East Coast, so my timezone is EST/EDT. Do not ask for any more information regarding my personal life. I am uncomfortable with people making any attempts to flirt or pursue a relationship with me. Doing so will most likely result in a block. Please respect me and my boundaries. Thank you.
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⊹ Basic Boundaries ⊹
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Respect My Space: If I request space, I ask that you respect it. There are times when I need to recharge or step away from conversations.
No Unsolicited Romantic Advances: I am not comfortable with flirtation. Please ensure that interactions remain friendly and respectful. Any attempts to pursue a romantic relationship may result in being blocked.
Be Kind and Patient: Given my conditions, I may require more time to respond or process information. Please be understanding if I need breaks or if my responses are slower than usual.
Avoid Overstepping Personal Boundaries: Please refrain from prying into my personal life, health, or intimate matters. I will share what I am comfortable with, and I expect my privacy to be respected.
Don’t Push After a Boundary Is Set: When I communicate a boundary, I expect it to be respected. Do not argue with me about my boundaries.
Respect My Comfort Zone: Please do not pressure me into sharing more than I am comfortable with, whether it concerns my mental health, personal life, or any other sensitive matters. I share on my own terms, when I feel ready.
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⊹ F.A.Q ⊹
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A seperate F.A.Q page is being worked on.
Q: What is Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID)?
A: Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) is a condition in which an individual experiences two or more distinct identities. It is often the result of trauma and can affect how I perceive and respond to different situations. I recommend doing some research for a deeper understanding.
Q: Can I ask about your alters?
A: While I understand the curiosity, I ask that you respect my privacy and boundaries. I am willing to discuss my alters when I feel it is appropriate, but invasive or unnecessary questions are not appreciated.
Q: Can I ask about your conditions or medical history?
A: I prefer not to delve into the specifics of my conditions unless it is relevant or if I have already shared such details publicly. I kindly request that you respect my privacy in this regard.
Q: Are you open to friendships?
A: I am open to forming friendships. However, I ask that you be mindful of my boundaries, as I am not comfortable with flirtation, romantic advances, or friendships with ulterior motives. I value genuine connections and do not appreciate feeling used.
Q: What if I accidentally overstep a boundary?
A: If you accidentally overstep a boundary, I will kindly inform you. I ask that you take my words into consideration and adjust your behavior accordingly. Mutual respect is key, so let's maintain open communication. If the same issue occurs, I will confront you or may soft block / unfriend you. You are welcome to ask why or reach out again, but I expect a sincere and genuine apology.
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⊹ Can Send ⊹
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Friendly Messages: Casual conversations, greetings, and encouraging comments are always welcome.
Compliments: Kind words about my work, art, or personality are appreciated, provided they remain respectful.
Questions: Feel free to ask about topics I’ve shared publicly or things I’m comfortable discussing.
Art or Creative Work: If sharing your own creations, please ensure they are appropriate and respectful.
Relevant and Respectful Advice: Only when requested, or if offering suggestions in a thoughtful and considerate manner.
Small Talk: Light, friendly topics that remain non-intrusive.
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⊹ Do Not Send ⊹
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Hate Speech: Any offensive or derogatory language, including but not limited to racial, homophobic, transphobic, or ableist remarks.
Harassment: Any form of persistent, rude messaging or unwanted attention.
Unsolicited Personal Questions: Inquiries into deeply personal matters or attempts to pry into my private life. Including discussions about my physical body, medical history, or intimate life, unless I have explicitly chosen to address such topics.
Spam: Unwanted chain messages, advertisements, or irrelevant content.
Triggering Content: Any messages that promote or glorify self-harm, eating disorders, or other harmful behaviors.
NSFW: Explicit content, including pornography, animated pornography, or any explicit images, whether drawn or photographic.
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⊹ Anon Messages ⊹
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I do allow anonymous messages, but please be respectful and considerate. If I receive any messages that violate my boundaries or make me uncomfortable, I will not hesitate to take action, which may include an IP block.
I don't want to turn off anon asks, so please keep things kind and respectful. Thank you!