all the names i go by: iris, lain, mandy, hawthorne. im okay with nicknames!
i use any pronouns except he/him unless its used in a silly way. if that makes sense. if not then to be safe just dont risk it.
heres some that i like though!
it/its
they/them
vamp/vamps
voi/void/voids
fie/fiend/fiends
vi/vir/virs
ae/aer/aers
i AM okay with she/her as long as its not all you use