lila 🌷
hi there !! i’m lila — or lily, lilac, whatever feels nicest to say.
i don’t mind nicknames at all, they make me feel loved.
i use she/her (and sometimes they/them, depending on the day). i’m pretty easy about it, you can mix them if you want. xenos/neos are also acceptable, i like nature related ones and things like che/cher + hy/hyr!
i’m a really caring person by nature — i like making people feel calm and understood. i’m good at listening and remembering the small things people say. even if i go quiet, i’m still right here.
i love soft music, light rain, candles, and tea. i collect little trinkets, poems, and stories that make me feel safe. i like drawing, journaling, and helping others organize their thoughts. i’m happiest when things are gentle and warm.
i’m part of a system, and i front when things get too heavy or confusing — my job is to slow things down and take care of everyone. please be patient if i pause while typing, sometimes i’m just grounding or listening.
i’m mentally around 17, i struggle with anxiety and dissociation sometimes, but i handle it by keeping things soft and steady. i don’t like yelling or harsh energy. i am bodily a minor.
no dni — if i need space, i’ll just step back.
please be kind, i promise to do the same ♡