დ BEFORE YOU INTERACT ⪻ I am very sensitive & am the host of the vestema system . i have ADHD , RSD , UDD , and PTSD . i make nsfw jokes sometimes , let me know if youre uncomfy & i will stop . I COME OFF AS FLIRTY ! i react to messages with hearts , i tell my friends of all gender "i love you!" , "sweet dreams", and LOVE using petnames such as sweet , hon , dear , love , bud , buddy , etc. I LOVE babying / coddling my friends (no srs jjst ask i will gladly do so.) i love comforting people , again jst ask ! i also send a lot of hugs and words of affirmation ^_^ because of this i may come off as "flirty", IM NOT FLIRTING i am just full of love and whimsy ᰔ <- that ONLY COUNTS FOR MY FRIENDS OF APPROPIATE AGE BTW !!!!!!! im not gonna do that to u if ur like. 18 or 13 cause thatd weird but uhhhhh if that applies to u just font make fun of me or call me ugly ill cry

please dont make fun of me or make any backhanded comments about my skill in skill based settings like art or forsaken or anything it makes me feel like a burden

I have no issue talking about personal stuff so long as we are friends, even if we are not "close." jjst ask anything! clarifying questions are highly encouraged. if you wanna ask about trauma or stuff idrc i make a lot of jokes about my trauma geah . but dont like randomly ask me what happened in a public server !! i dont wanna loredump there.

i LOVE vcs but am frequently too scared to ask to start one . being asked to vc makes me very very happy & affirms me very much ij not feeling like a burden ! i sometimes feel like a burden for joining people in games , ESP new friends , so i may apologize for beijg in thr game or leave quickly after. if you dont mind me playing w u pls lmk i will be soso very happy . i also really love being texted first , first texts make me feel very good ahout myself and like not everyone hates me ! if u ever wanna text me first PLEASE do i will be so happy , esp new friends .

i rsd trigger somewhat easily , and am prone to feeling burdening or pitiful , or left out . if we are talking and you see my status update as RSD triggered , or i stop responding , I AM OKAY / WILL BE OKAY . affirmation is appreciated but i am able to handle my rsd quite well and can clam myself down quite well with soem time. i will get back to you !

i have a lot of stuff wrong with me im sorry </3 i ask for patience grahhh !!

i have a lot of friends and love making new friends , so i cant always msg first or back quickly . pls patience ! its for this reason too i love being messages first or asked to do stuff cause it shows thag the other person cares too ! no worries if u cant , but be aware i am busy and may not respond right away

I feel very left out very easily , i love to be invited to play things it will make me so happy

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Pub: 06 Oct 2024 04:23 UTC

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