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BYI

stuff to keep in mind before interacting!!

  • i sometimes use typing quirks, misspell things intentionally, use emoticons, and use all caps. if any of these things get in the way of accessibility, bother you, etc; please let me know!!! i can provide translations or stop
  • i swear often and say slurs that i use as self-identifiers (specifically the f-slur and the t-slur)
  • i make death/murder jokes along with kys/kms jokes; i will not use them unless i know you're comfortable
  • i like the dream smp. i like omori. i like homestuck. i do not support their creators
  • i'm a minor
  • my memory sucks, possibly due to dissociation. don't take it personally. i don't remember much of my past and i might just forget things five minutes after the moment
  • thinking may overwhelm me at times + my brain is often very foggy; i may tend to give short responses to things. if you'd like something longer, please inform me and give me time to write
  • i'm an agnostic atheist; we have demon characters, one of our favourite characters is a demon, we find religious imagery interesting, etc. sorry if that bothers you.
  • i use tone tags sparingly, when i think they're most needed; please tell me if you don't want me to use them for you or if you need me to clarify the tone for something
  • i don't ghost people. i don't (completely) ignore people intentionally with rare exceptions like when there are subjects i don't want to discuss or if i simply don't like you. often i'm asleep, or i have low spoons, or i'm at school, etc. i might not see all messages or i forget to respond. i encourage you to remind me or ping me or anything; it doesn't bother me at all
  • like stated above, i'll sometimes just ignore stuff or go silent. oftentimes these are when subjects come up that upset me. or if you're straight up just bothering me
  • i keep all promises i make. unless they're in character / for a bit / etc. i take them very seriously for some reason
  • i'm disabled !!!! i often have low spoons (referring to spoon theory)
  • i have extremely strong opinions about stuff. i'm willing to debate, but if you make me uncomfortable i'm not going to interact

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THIN ICE

this might upset me but unless you do it repeatedly / on purpose i won't be mad. don't feel like you have to go out of your way to memorize and avoid this stuff but it's very highly appreciated

  • constantly misuse tone tags or refuse to use entirely upon request (fuck you?)
  • using emoticons that use a "-" instead of "_", such as "O-O" instead of "O_O". please don't feel like you have to go out of your way to not use them; it just puts me off slightly because of who i associate it with
  • using the r-slur, even if not directed at me and even if you can reclaim it. (i just generally don't believe it should be used)
  • insulting my qualities and/or my interests, and criticizing me without me asking first. i've gotten better about this recently, but please refrain calling me a loser or using "L"/"ratio"/"didnt ask"/"dont care"/"skill issue"/etc directed towards me about something i actually care about; unless VERY clearly used in a joking manner.
  • gaslighting me or otherwise lying to me (i use gaslighting in a very loose manner here); even if it's meant in a "joking" way, i cannot always tell. please avoid doing this unless we're close friends or if it's very obvious you're joking
  • all of the things listed below HEAVILY discomfort us and/or bring up bad memories:
  • making fun of my (special) interests, comfort characters, fictomeres, fav ships, etc
  • bringing up one piece / attack on titan around me (nothing against it really)
  • talking about us playing dnd / ttrpgs (i don't mind general talk about it!!), our part in any campaigns, and our characters belonging to said campaigns
  • talking about our body's face, whether positive or negative (and if i know you irl, taking photos of me without my explicit consent)
  • bringing up our old stuff (art, messages, etc)

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DNI

honestly i don't care whether or not people break my dni (if its for debate, etc) but if you do something stupid or rude i'm going to make fun of you

  • homophobic / transphobic / racist / sexist / ableist / misogynistic / zionist
    • anti mspec mono counts under homophobic. if you don't understand "contradictory" labels don't make that my problem LMFAOO
    • anti xeno + neos, terfs, truscum/transmeds, and again anti "contradictory" labels count under transphobic
    • TRANSID / PRATS (predatory racist ableist transphobes / radqueers) COUNT UNDER.. A LOT OF THESE CATEGORIES EWWIEE EWIE.. GET HELP !!
  • proshitters ewww ewwie idc if it's a "coping mechanism" that's called an unhealthy coping mechanism
  • antifur
  • antikin / therian / nonhuman / alterhuman
  • extremely sensitive people; i'm constantly worried about offending / triggering / etc anyone and i don't want to accidentally cause harm to anyone! i may not be able to keep up with specific boundaries, i'm sorry (okay to int if it's important but please be careful. nothing against any of you!!)
  • if you demonize cluster b disorders and any other commonly demonized disorders (i hate you)
  • supporters of cc!dream, wilbur, fundy, george, sapnap, whoever the fuck else i don't gaf

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STANCES

just to be clear abt everything xx

LABELS:

  • hazardqueer
  • femboy-punk
  • joypunk
  • queerfuck
  • hipqueer
  • cosmicqueer
  • coralqueer

PRO:

  • lgbtq+, liom, mogai, just queer ppl in general idk
  • alterhumanity / nonhumanity
  • "contradictory" labels
  • chronosian identities
  • ACAB, BLM, stop asian hate, etc :3

ANTI:

  • transid / radqueer
  • proship / comship
  • xenosatanist
  • consang
  • anything except anti-contact/pro-recovery for harmful paraphilias
  • shota / lolicon
  • any sort of bigotry
  • cringe culture

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Pub: 20 Jul 2023 07:44 UTC
Edit: 21 May 2024 01:06 UTC
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