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label hoard
these are all my labels i personally identify with . i am putting explanations for each to give more of a proper understanding/insight into how i see myself!
sexuality / attraction labels
- viramoric : an orientation used by non-binary or genderqueer individuals to refer to primary or exclusive attraction to men. similar to gay or androsexual, but with more inclusivity.
- arovague : a label that describes someone's status of aromanticism as unclear or dependent on their mood. can also be used to refer to someone's neurodivergence influencing their romantic attraction.
- demiromantic : demiromantic is defined as a person who does not feel romantic attraction until they form a deep emotional bond. me personally i cannot fathom being in a relationship with someone i don't know
- grayromantic : grayromantic is when someone does not fully relate to aromanticism, they relate to some aspects of it. some feel it rarely, others have a hard time distinguishing what is romantic attraction and what is not (this is true in my case), and so on.
- borearomantic : borearomantic is having a set romantic orientation, usually with an exception.
gender identity labels
- nullthetic (or, apanull) : refers to simultaneously feeling apathetic towards the concept of gender as a whole and considering your gender to be null or nonexistent in some manner. i coined this term myself!
- vagueguy : someone who identifies as "vaguely" a guy, but isn't necessarily a guy. similar to amasculine, as both identities are fine with being perceived as a masculine identity. i also coined this term! i think.
- benevoid : a xenogender that "reads as a contradiction. it is a gender that is definitely there, though it is only at the forefront of the mind if pushed there, but it consists of the void. it's more than neutral- it’s nothing and it’s a purposeful gender of nothing."
- miscellaneous : since there are more things that i believe describe my "gender" that i can't find a particular label for, i'll just list off a few quick ones.
- i feel a deep connection to the concept / aesthetic of old offices and old technology. fax machines, filing cabinets, clunky computers, you get the idea
- i also feel a connection to the sounds of old computer platforms. have a video for example.
- i feel connected to small cats and specifically blue jellyfish. eenie meenie little things
- i feel very connected to dolls and string puppets. those display dolls that you'd see in a museum or nana825763 video.
"so, wait, what do i call you?"
honestly, just refer to me as a guy for simplicity. it is absolutely not required for you to call me every single term on this list, this is just how i identify. i like masculine and neutral terms. however, regarding pronouns, i have a lot of different preferences when it comes to pronouns. please take these into account!
- he / him : i use he mostly. if neopronouns are too confusing for you, just use these! i don't care.
- doll neos : i like these as well! this is connected to the connection i mentioned in the miscellaneous section. examples on how to use these if you don't know how...
- Subject (he): "Oh, doll likes to sit there. That's just the spot doll chose."
- Object (him): "Don't worry about doll. Let doll think about it for a minute."
- Possessive (his): "He's in a bit of a bad mood, dolls charger isn't working."
- Reflexive (himself): "He made that dollself. Isn't it cool?"
- it / its : i'm alright with this as well! some people see it as "dehumanizing" so they don't refer to people with it, but i like it that way. similar to the above, here's examples.
- Subject (he): "Oh, it likes to sit there. That's just the spot it chose."
- Object (him): "Don't worry about it. Let it think about it for a minute."
- Possessive (his): "He's in a bit of a bad mood, its charger isn't working."
- Reflexive (himself): "He made that itself. Isn't it cool?"
- they / them : please don't use these on me. i used to use them, but they don't fit me very well anymore. i'm only okay with it under the circumstances of you being unaware of my pronouns, but once you find out, please stop using these!
- she / her : the above, but significantly worse. i am very uncomfortable with the usage of feminine pronouns or terms used to describe me. i am not okay with it under any line of reasoning.
- any other pronouns : meh. i don't use any others actively but i am open to experimenting with neos sometime later!