do NOT take my multisexual/alterous attraction and monoromantic attraction for a good faith identity, what i use to define myself is using a split-attraction model, for the love of god use your brain
gender;
genderqueer tfem intx genderflux
romantic;
cupio lesbian
sexual;
aceflux omnisexual
alterous;
panalterous (pretty hyper drive for this btw)
etc;
ambiam objectum (? idk id make out with a computer)