Vira's Basic Info
Basic Info
- I'm autistic + I suffer from BPD (as in, borderline personality disorder). My vocabulary may confuse others, and I'm generally socially inept, mentally slow, and overall unstable, as well as socially anxious (otherwise incredibly introverted). My neurodivergence obviously impacts how I interact with others. Please be patient with me.
- i'm also hella queer so if you don't like that just avoid me idk bro
- Treat me how you want to be treated. If you want me to be nice to you, be nice to me. Respect goes both ways; it is earned and not owed.
- I block very freely as my blocklist is currently in the hundreds. You'll generally know what you did, but I unblock whenever I decide to clear out my blocklist.
- I'm not good at providing comfort or advice. Please do not come to me for such things unless you trust me enough to offer them. I may most likely respond harshly, though it isn't with the intent to directly harm you or downplay your issues.
Boundaries
- Immediately avoid me if you're any of the following: pro/dark/comship/whatever label these cunts use, zionist/nazi/anyone right wing, radqueer (pro-para + pro-transid), or anyone supporting these things. Objectums are an exception because those guys are cool [and I'm also one of them].
- Vivziepop fans + Forsaken fans/players, TCC members, BTD fans, anyone generally weird should also stay away from me.
- I won't be friends with you if you're a minor. I'm an adult, even if I'm only 18, and I don't feel comfortable being friends with kids. We can chat, of course, but only in public servers, never in DMs [unless you moderate a server I'm in... which why would you if you're under 18?].
- ALWAYS ask to DM me unless you're a friend of mine, a server mod, or if it's urgent [or for commissions]. I don't deal well with strangers and will not respond (or respond rudely) if we've never talked before [usually with suspicions that you may be a scammer].
- If you have a personal issue with me, message me regardless of this boundary. Hate to be blunt, but keeping it to yourself only creates unnecessary tension. Just reach out. I usually won't bite if you aren't an asshole.
- Anyone associated with the Gem Galaxies fandom, or any ex friends of mine, should avoid me entirely, unless I'm needed for some reason.
My boundaries overall are somewhat flimsy, so if anything causes discomfort, I'll try to make it known.