DO NOT INTERACT

Do not interact with me if...
Apologies for length, you can skip the explanations if you'd like. I need to overexplain or I shrivel up and die.


  • You fit the general DNI criteria. You know the deal, all gross things ending in -phobic, racist, sexist, ableist ETC. Not that anyone like that would be reading this anyways.
  • You're a proshipper, MAP, or their supporters/whatever other terms they fit under. Fuck off, full offense. Selfcest enjoyers fall under this too, you are NOT welcome here. :-)
  • DSMP fans, EDtwt, et cetera
  • <14 or 21+ bodily. Exceptions can apply, but probably not for new people.
  • You think it's funny to misuse tonetags.
  • Autism Speaks supporter, or anyone who remotely agrees with their rhetoric. Autism is not something to be demonized... autistic lives should be celebrated and embraced, and autistic voices should be prioritized in informative spaces.
    • I'd also prefer if supporters of the term "Asperger's" and allistics who say "with autism" didn't interact generally, as these things are harmful towards autistic people as well. Autistic people who say "with autism" towards themselves interacting is perfectly fine, as that is a personal decision. DM me for information on anything you're confused about in these two bullet points.
  • Anti-recovery, or anyone who romanticizes mental illnesses. Also, this includes anyone who supports the term yandere... please don't do that.
    • Also, in some ways, the reverse applies. If you demonize these things, go fuck off, we can't control it. Yes, we're responsible for our actions, but surprise surprise! Disorders manifest in disordered ways! Support recovery, but don't chastise those exhibiting symptoms.
  • You're an OMORI or Stranger Things fan. If we already know eachother, or you aren't very outwards about it, you're fine.
  • "Croisstime" and "SSU" enjoyers do NOT interact with me, stay as far away as fucking possible. I know I already told proshippers off but those are especially disgusting to me.

BEFORE INTERACTING WITH ME

Boundaries
I'll let you know if you are an exception to these if it ever comes up-- usually if we're close.


  • I'm not comfortable with NSFW, in both joke form and ESPECIALLY in serious forms. I'll hardblock you if you send any of the latter, sorry.
    • This is only sort of related, but please also do not flirt with me. I'm aroace. Also, please don't make shipping jokes about me and other real people. It HAS happened before.
  • I'm perfectly okay with swearing, and you may reclaim any slurs that apply to you around me, EXCEPT for the R-slur... just don't be excessively vulgar, you know?
  • Please use tonetags when applicable, if you're comfortable with them. Of course, don't overuse them-- only where you feel what you've said can be misinterpreted.
    • Additionally, I am quite sensitive, especially to being "teased" as a type of humor. I have trouble telling what is and isn't a joke; I take it all seriously. I'll try to tell you if your jokes make me uncomfortable.
    • Also, please don't be the person who makes fun of someone's interests. Not cool, even if you add "/j" ...

OTHER STUFF

Things to know
Feel free to skip or skim.


  • I am critical of my interests, and don't condone any disgusting actions from problematic creators of things I may like.
  • I may message a lot or at inconvenient times, though I'm not intending to nag you! Please feel free to tell me if I'm messaging too much! In general, If I ever make you uncomfortable or do something wrong, please tell me!
  • I've said it before, but I'd like to say once more, I'm mentally ill. My mental abnormalities will probably manifest in things that aren't pretty, especially paranoia and moodswings. This isn't an excuse for me to partake in any abhorrent behaviors, rather, I want to say that mental illness will naturally have symptoms. I am pro-recovery, and in therapy for BPD myself.
  • I agree with the philosophy that DNIs go both ways. If we're interacting and you notice you are on my DNI, it's extremely likely, if not a guarantee that I haven't noticed, or you're a special case (specifically OMORI fans that I met before adding them to my DNI...)
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Pub: 20 May 2022 18:28 UTC

Edit: 13 Dec 2022 09:40 UTC

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