Non-ramcoa survivors telling RAMCOA survivors that talking about RAMCOA is dangerous and they should never look into it are actively harming programmed systems by triggering silence programs and making them self-destruct and get less access to aid, community, and terminology to be able to explain experiences to a medical professional and there has been little to no proof that learning about RAMCOA has ever killed a RAMCOA survivor.
People who push this idea that "it's too dangerous for you :((" and shut down all ramcoa survivors and then try to destroy our community terms because of some idea of being a glorious savior to us, are just being incredibly selfish and insensitive. It has never been about helping us, not ever. It has been about people wanting to feel like they're oh so cool and good and special. That they "really care" about the likes of the poor weak incapable RAMCOA survivors.
We don't need to be babied. We crawled out of the bowels of hell itself and have been through things that people often don't survive. Some of us have to fight programs every day, before and after knowing about our survivor status. Omega programming didn't start when we learned about RAMCOA. It first kicked off when we were seven years old. They, and I, failed to educate ourselves on the way programming functions yet insisting on speaking for us and people like us is infuriating. We are not children, and even the ones that are, like us, do not need you to baby them.
The only people we have ever seen proclaim talking about how "speaking on RAMCOA is bad and dangerous!!!!" are one of two groups; Non ramcoa-survivors speaking for us, and RAMCOA survivors with a program actively causing them to say this. In case you don't know much about programming, there is programs that make you try and silence both yourself and other people. This is one of the most well known types of programs. I am sorry to say this but we genuinely believe that most if not all RAMCOA survivors saying this are having a program run.
People pushing this message onto us literally triggered our silence program for so long we couldn't say much to our friends until we learned terminology. This community idea could have gotten us killed. We were in literal danger because we could not manage to tell our friends about our experiences because others had said the very same words our abusers did. "Don't tell anyone."
RAMCOA perpetrators do fucking everything they can to make sure we never speak. They are aiding abusers by contributing to our silence and they are possibly sending people to die.
This is not a thing I can be lighthearted about. This is something that has made our system have alters that deeply hate and despise anyone who contributed to it with us and the same to anyone who may have done so to others. If we ever change our minds and say this information is to dangerous to know, that IS a program. We are getting through it ourselves without assistance as we're not allowed any help. And no matter what, we will not be silenced. We need to be heard, loud, and proud that we've gotten so far.
(most not written by me)