NOTES - GO BACK TO MAIN RENTRY
⋆ Requests for label lists are almost ALWAYS open! I love finding them! Feel free to ask!
⋆ None of these labels are MINE. I DID NOT make them! I just like finding and listing them!
⋆ I do like xenogenders and even identity with some but I won't do xenogenders requests
because they tend to overwhelm me! But feel free to look on tumblr or pinterest!
⋆ If I ever use the emojis ★, ☁︎ or ☀︎. those are links to the flags or longer definitions!
QUESTIONS TO HELP WITH ORIENTATION
⋆ Does gender play a role in your attraction ?
⋆ Does how someone presents play a role in your attraction ?
⋆ Do you tend to feel attraction towards girl / feminine , boy / masculine , neutral / unaligned people ?
⋆ If it's not just one, are they a mix or a combination ?
⋆ How close do you need to be with someone to be attracted to them ?
⋆ Do you feel or lose attraction randomly or at certain times ( towards genders or any ) ?
⋆ How long is the attraction ? Does your preference change a lot or is it static ( non-changing ) ?
⋆ How strong or weak is your attraction ? Do you feel any attraction in the first place ?
Reminder that libido/sex drive and attraction are not the same thing! aro/ace people can want to do romantic/sexual things and not feel the attraction!
ORIENATIONS
⋆ attraction to women or feminine aligned
⋆ attraction to feminine presentation
⋆ attracted to mostly women but rarely men
⋆ attraction to men or masculine aligned
⋆ attraction to masculine presentation
⋆ attracted to mostly men but rarely women
⋆ attraction to nonbinary or neutral/unaligned
⋆ attraction to neutral, androgynous or xenine presentation (separately)
⋆ attraction to all but cisgender or binary genders
⋆ attraction that change with the gender
⋆ attraction effected by trauma and/or neurodivergence
⋆ aro/ace spectrum (includes opposites/allos)
⋆ fluctuating aro/ace (includes opposites/allos)
QUESTIONS TO HELP WITH GENDER
⋆ Do you like being perceived or feel like a girl/feminine, boy/masculine, neutral or genderless?
⋆ If its not just one, are they a mix or a combination?
⋆ How long do you feel them? Is it fluid or do you feel them at the same time (non-changing)?
⋆ Do you feel certain ones randomly or at certain times?
⋆ How strong or weak do you feel them?
Reminder that pronouns/clothes/hair/etc do not equal gender whatsoever!! So you can feel masculine but use she/her and etc!
GENDER
⋆ neutral but feminine leaning
⋆ genderless but feminine leaning
⋆ feminine but not in a binary girl way
⋆ partially but not fully feminine
⋆ fluidflux but feminine leaning
⋆ neutral but masculine leaning
⋆ genderless but masculine leaning
⋆ masculine but not in a binary boy way
⋆ partially but not fully masculine
⋆ fluidflux but but masculine leaning
⋆ androgynous
⋆ androgynous but masculine leaning
⋆ androgynous but feminine leaning
⋆ androgynous but neutral leaning
⋆ partially but not fully neutral or agender
⋆ fluidflux but neutral or agender leaning
⋆ partially but not fully a gender
⋆ gender effected by trauma and/or neurodivergence