NOTES - GO BACK TO MAIN RENTRY

⋆ Requests for label lists are almost ALWAYS open! I love finding them! Feel free to ask!
⋆ None of these labels are MINE. I DID NOT make them! I just like finding and listing them!
⋆ I do like xenogenders and even identity with some but I won't do xenogenders requests
because they tend to overwhelm me! But feel free to look on tumblr or pinterest!
⋆ If I ever use the emojis ★, ☁︎ or ☀︎. those are links to the flags or longer definitions!


QUESTIONS TO HELP WITH ORIENTATION

⋆ Does gender play a role in your attraction ?
⋆ Does how someone presents play a role in your attraction ?
⋆ Do you tend to feel attraction towards girl / feminine , boy / masculine , neutral / unaligned people ?
⋆ If it's not just one, are they a mix or a combination ?
⋆ How close do you need to be with someone to be attracted to them ?
⋆ Do you feel or lose attraction randomly or at certain times ( towards genders or any ) ?
⋆ How long is the attraction ? Does your preference change a lot or is it static ( non-changing ) ?
⋆ How strong or weak is your attraction ? Do you feel any attraction in the first place ?

Reminder that libido/sex drive and attraction are not the same thing! aro/ace people can want to do romantic/sexual things and not feel the attraction!


ORIENATIONS

attraction to women or feminine aligned
attraction to feminine presentation
attracted to mostly women but rarely men
attraction to men or masculine aligned
attraction to masculine presentation
attracted to mostly men but rarely women
attraction to nonbinary or neutral/unaligned
attraction to neutral, androgynous or xenine presentation (separately)
attraction to all but cisgender or binary genders
attraction that change with the gender
attraction effected by trauma and/or neurodivergence
aro/ace spectrum (includes opposites/allos)
fluctuating aro/ace (includes opposites/allos)


QUESTIONS TO HELP WITH GENDER

⋆ Do you like being perceived or feel like a girl/feminine, boy/masculine, neutral or genderless?
⋆ If its not just one, are they a mix or a combination?
⋆ How long do you feel them? Is it fluid or do you feel them at the same time (non-changing)?
⋆ Do you feel certain ones randomly or at certain times?
⋆ How strong or weak do you feel them?

Reminder that pronouns/clothes/hair/etc do not equal gender whatsoever!! So you can feel masculine but use she/her and etc!


GENDER

neutral but feminine leaning
genderless but feminine leaning
feminine but not in a binary girl way
partially but not fully feminine
fluidflux but feminine leaning
neutral but masculine leaning
genderless but masculine leaning
masculine but not in a binary boy way
partially but not fully masculine
fluidflux but but masculine leaning
androgynous
androgynous but masculine leaning
androgynous but feminine leaning
androgynous but neutral leaning
partially but not fully neutral or agender
fluidflux but neutral or agender leaning
partially but not fully a gender
gender effected by trauma and/or neurodivergence


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Pub: 31 Dec 2024 06:28 UTC

Edit: 30 Dec 2025 01:43 UTC

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