discourse blacklist
aka don't talk to me/send me stuff about this shit please
- pro vs. anti shipping, "fiction vs. reality," fandom discourse in general
- "internet purity culture," "modern puritanism," conflating sex repulsion with sex negativity
- any sort of kink/fetish/paraphilia discourse, including kink at pride
- queer label/flag/inclusion/exclusion discourse, especially concerning lesbians
- anything framing offline queer spaces as inherently better/more "sane"/less hostile than online queer spaces, regardless of the specific point being made
- anything calling someone a "TERF" for doing something besides being transphobic, or a "TIRF" or "baeddel", regardless of the specific point being made
- "theyfabs", "tenderqueers"
- (trans)androphobia/misandry, "do trans men have male privilege," transmasc vs. transfem infighting, mlm vs. wlw infighting
- "are genderbends transphobic"
- reclamation of slurs
- narcissistic and borderline personality disorders, OCD
- validity of endogenic/etc. systems
- tensions between the otherkin(d) and "kin for fun" communities
- carrds, DNIs, and other methods of establishing boundaries online