Why don't I say it then? I want you all the time.

Koda's boundaries ok? Listen and follow or I skin you

1. Do not misgender me

I only accept it/its, and rarely she/he from those close to me, with my permission. Which most people reading this are not. They/them on me is misgendering me, try not to use those either thanks. Sometimes I will use he/she on myself this is not an invitation for you to do the same~
Use masculine and feminine terms interchangebly. I don't care most times, just no "thing" or anything like that. If i'm not a fan of what you're calling me i'll correct you.

2. Don't make fun of me / my interests

Double header! I am aware in this day and age of the internet, this is a hard ask. But seriously, don't act like an asshole and expect me to like you. Goes for friends too, I don't enjoy you taking the piss out of me when it's clear i'm not having fun, It makes me not want to talk to you I am on testostorone at the moment and it makes me extremely more irritable and prone to being angry / upset, you making fun of me triggers both. alot of people as of late like to make fun of my special interests, or just general ones. my interests make me who i am, and affect me more then i assume most people get affected by such a thing. refrain from making fun of the things i like.

3. people under 15 DNI (unless for business purposes)

i'm 17 on the way to 18. i don't feel comfortable talking to 15 year olds too much anymore! would much rather 16+ friends now

4. Don't assume when it comes to me

Stop assuming you know me, my intentions, or my tone. it is annoying on my end, as i am mostly always satirical unless the conversation calls for seriousness. if you do assume, it will make you see me through a false/tainted lense, or see me as somethiing i am not if you get anything wrong. i would rather be asked privately what my opinion or whatever on whatever it is, is. I would probably say to not take everything I say at anytime at face value. I honestly am quite immature when it comes to the jokes I make, and what I say when I feel comfortable with people. If anything ever upsets you, communicate it and it will stop, ok? Ez.

5. Don't rely on me / vent to me

If we are not close. I don't handle my own emotions well, i'm not equipped to deal with you, and even if i was i suck at comforting. i am not who you should run to unless its neccescary. Ofcourse despite that i want my close friends to come to me, this one is kinda 50/50. just ask before you vent to me. If you decide to come to me and vent to me expect either me to be completely honest or lie to your face #Sorry im not for being vented to and I dont want to cater to you i want it to be over with.

6. No fat/selfharm jokes

This is so annoying to me I really don't feel like being called fat or have selfharm jokes spouted at me. Don't joke about sh/ed twt with me?? I feel like this is common sense but It makes me uncomfortable to have people mention triggering topics out of the blue. Don't joke about my weight and don't make whatever fucking other jokes there are ?? .

7. Don't be weird with me.

Afew things come with this one lol; Please try and keep in mind that I am suspected BPD & struggle with narcissism, this means i struggle with forming and keeping friendships, especially with being close to people. please dont be over the top or refer to our relationship in grandiose ways when it isnt,, just makes me feel weird. Avoid jokes about sex unless close I don't trust myself to keep it a joke. Due to what's mentioned prior I can be rude & that is just how i am, it's never very serious and likely to be exaggerated or satirical, please don't try and say shit like "but you love me" it just. weirds me out unless you're ichor gc / whyworld and maybe afew select others. That reminds me lovemail to be made.
A more specific one, but lately people haven't been able to tell my satire statements and genuine ones apart... especially when it comes to me referring to my girl friends as my actual girlfriends. Me and my girl Nicole Fake date for the freaking fun of it Ok I don't need you all reminding me of the fact i'm gay, i promise you I know. i refer to everything as my girlfriend, i seriously can't believe how stupid some people are at times, you see my bio? you see the fact i don't have a partner? use ur brain