
byi extended
·· anyone closely associated with user @screamotabi on github are on thin ice.
i'd say that i have pretty frequent moodswings that aren't really all THAT bad, but it really depends on the day and such.
i really appreciate long conversations that are based around my interests or those that require strong opinions. it gets me hyped and puts me into a better mood most of the time. though, do be aware that there will be times where i'm not in the best mood & will avoid long convos with people i'm not so close with. i make a few exceptions with this though !!
[ more specifically towards wbg gc and other close friends. ]
i'm more of an action-oriented person / a nonverbal communicator. whenever i start to dislike someone or get uncomfortable with people i'm close with, i tend to reassure them that i'm fine out of habit and sort of..?? out of a tendency to people please (im so sorry about this HELP). so if anything just kinda pay attention to the way i act. it's actually kinda obvious if i had to say. THOUGH i'm more direct with strangers + do admit it occasionally when it gets too much
(please don't always mistaken my sudden dry texting/randomly being quiet as me being uncomfortable though,, chances are im busy or just have low social battery. which i usually say so dw!!)
i also space out & doze off while on pt more frequently than i'd like to admit so just expect that if i suddenly go quiet or move to random places out of nowhere 💔
elaborating more on the self-centeredness mentioned previously; i genuinely don't mind if you talk about yourself like how your day is going, stuff you've done throughout the day, yada yada you get the gist of it. but what i DO hate is when someone else is venting for instance, and you somehow make it about yourself. not only is it straight up SELFISH, but it makes the person listening and comforting the other person to feel the need to comfort you too. also, use common sense when it comes to these type of things i absolutely BEG + results in an eventual confrontation if it pissed me off enough or cutting off ties if you've pulled the same shit COUNTLESS of times on purpose.
i also have pretty problematic opinions (i'd say..?) that would probably get my head put on a spike if i openly said it but. you know. i mostly voice out whatever concerns i have and stuff, im also pretty blunt so uuhhehh. yeaaaah,, tell me if it bothers you and MAYBE i'll try toning it down
also do please feel free to c+h whenever you want!! f1 pony or not. i really enjoy the company of people and will probably strike up a conversation once i feel comfy enough.