i am not okay with people other than my wife flirting with me in a serious manner!!! i'm very much monogamous and also very happy with her so please don't flirt with me at all lmao
if you are busy or going to be busy, tell me ahead of time. i get upset when i think i'm being ignored by those close to me. if you ignore me on purpose, i will be pretty damn upset about it
i'm fine with nicknames, compliments, tonetags, joking around, asking about interests, and dms (to a certain extent). if i say i do not like a nickname you use on me, stop using it! yes i am fine with freakbob (inside joke) LMFAO. i often will ask for clarification on if a person is being sarcastic or serious or anything like that if they don't use tonetags with me. DON'T joke around about dumb shit, rape jokes and other jokes alike go way too far and make me very uncomfortable. pda is totally fine with me but unless you're my wife ONLY do platonic public displays of affection towards me PLEASE
ask before you vent to me and before calling me. i'm not always stable enough to listen to people and answer vents at ALL, and if you vent randomly i may just ignore the message and message you a few hours later or wait for you to say something else. i can't call very often at all, i'm normally never home alone and it's very rare that i actually am so ask beforehand or i'll let you know when i'm going to be home alone so you know ahead of time whenever we can call
don't baby me, i am fifteen. i am totally fine with "haha you should be in the daycare" jokes but if it gets to the point where you're actually acting like i don't understand the world around me and i'm a little kid i'll get pissed. don't ask about my trauma out of nowhere either, especially if we aren't close friends. i won't be too happy if i get asked some dumb shit like "why did your dad leave you" out of nowhere. also just don't joke around or make fun of me because i'm adopted or anything like that in general unless i do first or you're also adopted or whatever/we're close, it's weird.
DO NOT DRAG ME INTO YOUR DRAMA. i already have enough stressful shit going on in my life, i don't want to be dragged into any more drama with anyone. you can talk about it with me, sure, but don't add me to groupchats with people who are upset with you or other people in the gc, introduce me to people you know you hate, or anything similar. this doesn't mean i'm saying i'm never involved in drama or i don't tell people the dumb shit other people have done, i am/do. i try to stay out of drama but unfortunately i still am involved in it sometimes. i don't want pulled into anything that has already started or that you suspect will become drama quickly, though