welcome <333 here is some stuff about me :3
name: fin
pronouns: it/its + any neos
lgbtq+ stuff: a-spec queer + autigender
age: 19
stuff to know: I have bpd, autism, adhd, dp/dr, processing issues, etc. so please have some patience with me :']
links: discord and tumblr
my special interests/hyperfixations:
monster prom/camp
animals (sharks, snakes, and jellyfish mainly)
limbus company
adventure time + fionna and cake
dhmis
omori
dan and phil (sister daniel <3)
fnaf
dunmeshi
anything by filmcow
music
stationery
coloring pixels
sudoku
kakuro
connect the dots puzzles
neurodivergence
blind boxes/figurines
bones
pokemon
gregory horror show
anything queer
plushes
anything with the mcelroys
jack stauber's opal
ena
ruby gloom
before you interact:
I often need clarification and/or tone tags (especially with one word responses without emojis)
I need boundaries explicitly stated, please do not assume I will know
I tend to vent/complain a lot
I have intense mood swings
I often self-isolate for short periods of time when not feeling well mentally/emotionally/physically
flirting makes me uncomfortable so please don't unless I personally give you permission to
I use all caps and keysmash a lot
I may unfriend you if you consistently don't talk to me much or respond at all
don't say you love me (even platonically) since I can't reciprocate that and it makes me uncomfortable
dni if:
homophobic
transphobic
racist
ableist
trumed
radfem
gender critical
rad-inclus
dream stans/fans of problematic creators
proshipper
pro-ED
trump supporter
terf
exclusionist
anti-neopronouns
anti-xenogenders
you say slurs you can't reclaim
believes in/uses the term "narc abuse"
likens those with bpd to yanderes
boundaries:
don't "jokingly" threaten me with weapons or tell me to harm myself
do not insult my interests without good reason
if you do not know how to respond to something I say, please say so and don't leave me on read
please do not make negative comments about my appearance
no kys or kms jokes or mentioning suicide around me if possible
please do not refer to me using a slur even if you can reclaim it
do not intentionally confuse/anger me
wild geese by mary oliver
You do not have to be good. You do not have to walk on your knees for a hundred miles through the desert repenting. You only have to let the soft animal of your body love what it loves. Tell me about despair, yours, and I will tell you mine. Meanwhile the world goes on.