@BOUNDARIES

I will update this page as I am able to clarify my boundaries better. Failure to respect my boundaries willautomaticallyland you on myblacklist.

[]:➤ Please do not vent to me about your problems unless I have explicitly said it is okay. ╰┈➤ Please do not take my advice or opinions as a diagnosis, or treat me as a therapist.

[]:➤ I am professionally diagnosed with CPTSD, ADHD, and MDD, which means I may not reply or post regularly. Please respect that.

[]:➤ Do not involve me/bring me into online drama or any public discourse if I am not actively a part of the situation. ╰┈➤ I refuse to participate in any and all online discourse in the artist/furry community, and instead encourage others to communicate with me personally if there is an issue with anything regarding/mentioning me (behaviors, actions, etc).

[]:➤ I am not a mind reader. If you have an issue with me please communicate it clearly and directly to me!

[]:➤ I refuse to water down my feelings to make others more comfortable. * ╰┈➤ I believe the worst thing a person can do is hide or lie about what they feel. I will always try to express myself openly when possible.

[]:➤ Please do not make any sexual jokes that could be construed as advances, or hint at any form of sexual/romantic bond with me if: we have not discussed boundaries about it prior OR are not EXTREMELY close.

[]:➤ If you have an issue with any of my friends or the people close to me, please just don't talk to me. * ╰┈➤ I do not believe others are always an extension of the people they hang around. If you have issues with my friends, take it up with them. Do not ask me to be a messenger to any of my friends you have issues with.

[]:➤ I do not give out tarot or natal chart readings randomly. I am in the process of practicing them, in order to possibly do as a service later. Please do not ask for one if I do not offer one for you first. **

[]:➤ I often make very sarcastic jokes to cope, sometimes in a way that makes it seem like I'm bullying myself. If that type of humor makes you uncomfortable, please tell me ASAP so I can make a mental note not to make those types of jokes around you. /gen

[]:➤ When asked, I am a very open and honest book. Do not take others' words as my own. If you want to know something from my perspective of things, just ask. ╰┈➤ I do not believe there is ever one "true" side to a story/situation. I try to hear all sides of a situation before I voice an opinion. If you have an issue with this, I'd advise you to not interact with me.

*business inquiries are an exception to this point, however, PLEASE NOTE : any chatting that isnot commission relatedwill beminimized with any client that i have not previously spoken to ------ **if i offer to do a reading for you i will not accept any money in return. any attempts to send me money in return for a reading or any attempts to persuade me to do one for you when i have not offered will get you on myblacklist.

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Pub: 04 Sep 2024 06:23 UTC
Edit: 01 Apr 2025 06:13 UTC
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