ᛟ IF YOU WANNA GET CLOSER ᛟ
If you're looking to get closer to me, there's something important you should know ;
- I view anything sexual through an artistic, human, and non-"traumatized" lens , I genuinely enjoy and appreciate sexual and kink-related media (Along with Media that has to do with Substance Abuse, as a Survivor , i find this comforting.) ,as a form of creative expression. If you don't like that or/and are uncomfortable , perhaps you're not old enough to interact or be closer to me. Not sorry. I find it GENUINELY beautiful, not taboo, and I actively seek it out like someone would search for good art. I love art. Said once again.. don't find it traumatic or taboo; I find it fascinating, expressive, and beautiful. I actively seek out sexual and kink-themed media like others might seek out great music or film. It's just another form of art to me. I APOLOGIZE but if you ever think this is "Traumatizing" or Uncomfortable, ill automatically assume you're not mentally mature for this, and i won't interact further . Just don't be annoying with me , and everything will be alright.
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- When it comes to media depicting substance abuse. whether it’s alcohol, drugs, or anything along those lines. I approach it much the same way I do with sexual themes. I see it as another raw, real part of the human experience that can be expressed through art. Substance abuse in media can reveal vulnerability, struggle, or even beauty in chaos, and I appreciate that complexity. I say this also as someone who used to be a survivor of that abuse myself. I understand the layers, the pain, and the nuance involved. Like with everything else, I keep an open mind and am willing to discuss it thoughtfully, without jumping to conclusions or moralizing.
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- AND NO I WON'T ACTIVELY SHOW YOU THAT KIND OF MEDIA IMMEDIATELY - PLEASE KNOW THAT I PREFER TO KNOW YOUR BOUNDRIES FIRST AND YOU MINE BEFORE HAVING/WANTING ANY SORT OF FRIEND RELATION WITH ME. WE WILL TALK WHAT IS A YES AND WHAT IS A NO. I WON'T FORCE OR ENGAGE YOU WITH THAT KIND OF MEDIA IF YOU'RE UNCOMFORTABLE, NO IS A NO. AND IM NOT AN ASSHOLE. I WILL ONLY DO IT IF WE'RE CLOSE, VERY CLOSE. ONCE AGAIN. NO IS A NO.
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- !! I WILL JOKE ABOUT VERY INSENSITIVE STUFF !! (EITHER ; AS A COPING MECHANISM, OR IF I KNOW YOU - AND KNOW I CAN.) If you don't like it, then tell me. I'm not here to make anyone uncomfortable. Not being able to tell me shows you don't know how to have healthy relations. Immature.
- I don’t judge anyone for their preferences, kinks, or opinions . If something doesn’t sit right with me, I’ll usually overthink it until I'll finally understand why, not because I want to shame or cancel anyone, But because I think everyone deserves a little bit understand-ability. I’ll either not care, or I’ll engage in a calm, open conversation ... never with offense. Shame on you if you do that. No topic is off-limits with me. I understand that fear, but I won’t pretend perfection. I’d rather talk openly about everything ... literally anything
- My mindset is open, curious, and calm. I tend to keep conversations thoughtful and judgment-free. I will listen. I might jump to conclusions, but often it happens through my overthinking and pure curiousity, I never mean it in a negative way, so please tell me everything.. I respect emotional, mental, and even controversial depth. That said, while extremely rare. it’s possible I might quietly block someone if I feel truly disrespected, uncomfortable, or drained. It’s not something I do lightly, and it’s never about drama. Just self-preservation.
- “Problematic Stuff” doesn’t bother me; I believe everyone’s got flaws, and most people just hide them. That said, I get why people are afraid of being hated or misunderstood. But me? I’ll talk about anything . no filter, no fear, no judgment. So if you want to connect, just know: this space is raw, real, and unfiltered. Proceed with awareness. So if you're approaching me, come as you are. But also be ready for raw honesty, complex conversations if it ever happens.., and zero judgment. I'm here for the real, unfiltered human experience