" why does it hurt to love you? " subspace " i dont know. " leos ext byf/dni!

BYF : im VERY unpredictable, expect rapid mood and personality switches which can be distressing,, i have bpd and osdd which greatly limits my communcation skills, along with cptsd and autism. im very bad at talking to new people and i can become easily overwhelmed. especially around close friends, i openly discuss my disorders, self harm and personal life and im very prone to oversharing. i may also joke about self harm and suicide but only to my closer friends/if i know youre comfortable with it. im quite active on shedtwt and i mention it quite often. additionally, im very forgetful, i try to respect everyones boundaries but sometimes i forget and id appreciate if you could be patient and calmly remind me, i never mean to make people i care about uncomfortable. i suppose im sort of problematic and talk about controversial and deep subjects, and i sometimes interact with problematic people such as proshippers (im not one myself !!). other than that, i yap about my interests ALOT, we will become friends alot easier if we share interests ! im extremely easily triggered which could affect how i feel about you for periods of time. i can either have really low or high empathy, making it difficult for me to give advice when venting to me, but im always free to listen whenever! if you couldnt tell, im extremely mentally ill and unstable, and i understand that my actions may hurt people, even if i dont mean to. futhermore, (especially during episodes) i have a very "all or nothing" mindset, mainly due to my bpd. i can also be terribly overprotective with my fps/friends, saying rude and unkind things to those who i perceive as a "threat" to our relationship. also, im objectum (attracted to objects) so if this makes you uncomfortable leave me alone !! im also transmasc, but not out to any of my irls, please respect my identity! as mentioned before, i have osdd-1b and i am a system of about ~40?, so some boundaries are susceptable to change depending on who is fronting. it can be hard for me to differentiate between alters, so please be patient! additionally, some alters can be more social than others, so if i dont communicate its probably not your fault! (fawk my crippling social anxiety)

DNI : homophobes, transphobes, racists etc. if youre under 10 or over 24. spamtenna shippers. if you hate on most of my interests, if we dont have ANYTHING in common, if youre generally overly hateful/negative all the time. yume doubles. if youre against: fictionkins, otherkins, objectum, self/yumeshipping, furries, neo/xeno pronouns. if you vent without asking and if you engage in "trauma" wars.

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Pub: 03 Mar 2025 16:47 UTC

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