Boundaries
DO NOT:
- Talk about romance or your romantic feelings or relationship issues with me. Like ever.
- Attempt to lecture me about Ukraine or speak Ukrainian to me
- Vent / trauma dump without asking
- Make any kind of romantic / flirtatious / sexual comments towards me
- Yes, I’m ægosexual, I have sexual thoughts and preferences, no, this does not mean I want to talk about them with anyone!
- Send or talk about any sexual or overly violent content
- Talk about real-world politics unprompted unless we’re really close
- Give me pet names (nicknames are fine)
- Things like virtual hugs or pats/scratches are fine (I quite like it), but any (physical or virtual) romantic actions will result in a block, also no physical touch
- Call me by any previous names
DO NOT INTERACT:
- ConWorkShop member
- Anyone I've cut contact with in the past, I had my reasons (especially Norci and Madeup)
- Banderite nazis, zios, trumpers
- People who try to moralise me for supporting Russia
- People who try to police how others cope with their trauma
- People with romantic/sexual intentions
- Basic DNI (any kind of bigots, pedo/zoophiles, etc.)
Preferences:
- I am nomifluid, meaning I have multiple names I go by but prefer certain names over others sometimes, whatever name I prefer will be in my pronouns thingy in Discord
- Speak English or German with me, if you want to speak in Rhine-Hessian or conlangs or practice Russian sure but ask first
- Always reply ping
- I prefer texting, but voice messages and calls should be fine too, just ask before calling
- If you think something might be difficult to understand for me, it probably is, so use tone tags in that case
- If I use any Ballsi words and you're confused about the meaning, please ask
Disclaimers:
- I have several disabilities that impact how my brain works and how I act, please be patient with me
- I might not be very emotionally expressive with people unless I'm very close with them, it's not personal
- LITERALLY EVERYTHING I say/do is platonic
- If I say I love you it is ALWAYS, WITHOUT EXCEPTION, platonic
- I am not plural, I just live to larp so if I speak as characters (something I’m planning to test out if it feels right for me), know I am not pretending to be plural or trying to mock plural people, I’m just choosing to express myself through a fictional character
- If I’m not online for… 2 weeks or so, without announcing it before, I’m probably dead or kidnapped