Boundaries

DO NOT:

  • Talk about romance or your romantic feelings or relationship issues with me. Like ever.
  • Attempt to lecture me about Ukraine or speak Ukrainian to me
  • Vent / trauma dump without asking
  • Make any kind of romantic / flirtatious / sexual comments towards me
  • Yes, I’m ægosexual, I have sexual thoughts and preferences, no, this does not mean I want to talk about them with anyone!
  • Send or talk about any sexual or overly violent content
  • Talk about real-world politics unprompted unless we’re really close
  • Give me pet names (nicknames are fine)
  • Things like virtual hugs or pats/scratches are fine (I quite like it), but any (physical or virtual) romantic actions will result in a block, also no physical touch
  • Call me by any previous names

DO NOT INTERACT:

  • ConWorkShop member
  • Anyone I've cut contact with in the past, I had my reasons (especially Norci and Madeup)
  • Banderite nazis, zios, trumpers
  • People who try to moralise me for supporting Russia
  • People who try to police how others cope with their trauma
  • People with romantic/sexual intentions
  • Basic DNI (any kind of bigots, pedo/zoophiles, etc.)

Preferences:

  • I am nomifluid, meaning I have multiple names I go by but prefer certain names over others sometimes, whatever name I prefer will be in my pronouns thingy in Discord
  • Speak English or German with me, if you want to speak in Rhine-Hessian or conlangs or practice Russian sure but ask first
  • Always reply ping
  • I prefer texting, but voice messages and calls should be fine too, just ask before calling
  • If you think something might be difficult to understand for me, it probably is, so use tone tags in that case
  • If I use any Ballsi words and you're confused about the meaning, please ask

Disclaimers:

  • I have several disabilities that impact how my brain works and how I act, please be patient with me
  • I might not be very emotionally expressive with people unless I'm very close with them, it's not personal
  • LITERALLY EVERYTHING I say/do is platonic
  • If I say I love you it is ALWAYS, WITHOUT EXCEPTION, platonic
  • I am not plural, I just live to larp so if I speak as characters (something I’m planning to test out if it feels right for me), know I am not pretending to be plural or trying to mock plural people, I’m just choosing to express myself through a fictional character
  • If I’m not online for… 2 weeks or so, without announcing it before, I’m probably dead or kidnapped

Edit

Pub: 04 Feb 2026 18:07 UTC

Edit: 24 Apr 2026 18:14 UTC

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