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I go by Jou or Mitch. I have ADHD , BPD , AVPD , DPD. I am also verbalflux and antisocial. These things do influence how I talk to others and my everyday life, I ask you to just please be patient with me.

I am from the southeastern states, so my timezone is CST/CDT. Please don't ask for anymore information regarding where I live or my personal life.

I am uncomfortable with people making advances towards me, I have a partner whom I love deeply. I make that very publicly known - if you try to make any kind of advance towards me I will block you (/p is needed).

Respect my space, sometimes I walk away from my ; desk, computer, or phone - simply doing me. Perhaps I wondered off somewhere, or I simply just don't want to talk at the moment and will take a few minutes for myself to 'recharge'. Please don't spam me, just allow me to come back when I do.

Please no romantic advances - weather it is to flirt with me, try to get into a relationship with me ect. I have a partner. I need some patience, I wonder off alot of the times or just sit and think about a response - time is all i need. Don't overstep any of my boundaries, I don't know how to make desisions myself alot of the times. I will ask my partner or close friend what I should do if you do overstep - I rely heavily on them...... So alot / some actions will be influenced by them 🤍

If I do give a clear warning not to do something please respect that. Don't pressure me into things, like sharing personal information, or doing actions.

A quick rundown about my MI / Disorders
ADHD affects me by making it hard to pay attention and remember things. I can forget things almost instantly, so you will probably have to tell me things over and over. BPD causes me to have very unstable emotions :< My mood can change in an instant. It also makes me have favorite people :> Since I rely heavily on my FP, my whole day / life can revolve around them. If they’re in a bad mood, I’m now in a bad mood too. DPD ties into this as well! I tend to be very dependent and submissive toward my partner (If they notice LOL). I rely heavily on them, and my partner is also my FP. AvPD (Avoidant Personality Disorder) gives me a big fear of many social situations and social norms, especially fear of rejection and avoidance, which makes interacting with others really hard. Verbalflux means my ability or desire to talk changes a lot. I can be extremely talkative and hyper at times, or completely non-talkative for hours or even days. I might communicate through noises, emojis, short replies, or sometimes not respond at all. This isn’t personal. Antisocial means I struggle with social connection and expectations. I can / may seem distant, detached, or uninterested in any social interaction at times, and I don’t always react to situations the way people expect. This isn’t me trying to be rude it’s just how I operate. Note I also have low empathy

haii,, I have 2 favorite people haha... My lovley partner and sister. Many actions I may do may be influenced by them 💌
As at times I may not know what is best for me or have touble with other things. As above please interact with extra caution.

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Pub: 24 Oct 2022 21:23 UTC

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