As of today (may10), i am publicly profic/proship, and i dont support or condone anything problematic irl. no i dont believe that media doesnt affect real life because that is the reason why people think cats drink milk, even though it is very bad for them.
i use problematic shipping as a private coping mechanism, i always have. i have never mentioned it to anybody publicly until now and i will never bring it up first in a convo unless i trust the person and i know they do not mind. I also believe harassing people over ships is just mean; and unwarranted
I am not necessarily 'problematic' though, i have a set moral compass and will not defend bad things irl no matter what.
I'm still the same person I was before. My coping mechanisms should not concern you, they do not harm either of us. Example: Me shipping two characters with an illegal and immoral age gap privately to cope what happened to me is not going to kill you. It'll just help me feel better about being groomed multiple times in the past.

Wondrous! back

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Pub: 17 Feb 2025 04:16 UTC
Edit: 13 May 2025 14:14 UTC
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