Before You Interact (here’s some info we would like you to know!)

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This is both a general system and host-specific BYI since they front the most. More host info is HERE!

Keeping this as short as I can but the main info is in bold!

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Basic interactions:

DMs + FRQs:
Ok! Tell us who you are though
Flirting:
clear /j, but prefer not
Relationships:
PS: Attic Archive - (we only date in each other's systems)
besties!: Goopless, Ben/Moth, Moffy, Shy, FairyTrain
Triggering alters to front:
Close friends/with permission

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Conditions to be aware of:

bulletpoint DID:
Periods of dissociation especially when stressed or tired,
other alters who are not the host communicating with you
with their own issues and conditions
(see our member list)

bulletpoint ASD:
Struggle to differentiate between jokes and seriousness.
Tone tags are appreciated.
Rejection sensitive dysphoria, prone to overexplaining,
Overstimulated sometimes. Verbally stims when excited.

bulletpoint PTSD:
Paranoia and various common triggers
(TW: such as S/A and abortion/pregnancy)
we can’t ask people to avoid other triggers of
every day things so we will notify you if we feel uncomfortable.

bulletpoint Regression:
The host is an age slider and we have child alters also.
No one who is or is presenting as younger than 13 will
communicate without an adult co-fronting.
No one under 18 will be on the 18+ ponytown server.
Child alters are monitored when on the safe server.
Be nice to them and treat them how you'd treat any kid.

Just use tone tags for jokes and
be patient and gentle with us.

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How we interact with others
(and what it means for you):

bulletpoint Some of us do make kys/die jokes
but only as a joke and is never meant harshly.
We also use “I’m gonna kms” sometimes.

bulletpoint We are tolerant of most things except joking about our
trigger topics or threatening our partner/friends/system

without making it a CLEAR joke that everyone is okay with.

bulletpoint Fakeclaiming is never okay
and with us isn’t a place to discuss it.

bulletpoint If you have an issue with something we have said or done
please talk to us.

We would much rather sort it with you than have grudges
held over things we may not even be aware of.
(eg. some alters can come across as cold or mean
but simple communication eg. Asking “are you mad”
is totally fine and will normally clear it right up.)

bulletpoint Get to know us before you make any judgements
based on anything you’ve heard.

just because you don't like someone we are friends with
doesn't mean you won't like us.

bulletpoint We refuse to be involved in drama
unless we have been asked specifically
by a close friend to help out.

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Pub: 30 Mar 2023 16:05 UTC
Edit: 21 May 2024 13:27 UTC
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