That's a disclaimer, if anyone feels confused about my main ship (Kouteru). I'll probably say the same thing a lot of times, because I need people to understand what I mean.
Explaining my ship.
I'm a riako of Koutarou, the vocalist of Amai Bouryoku (that goes by his stage name, Saki). I love him a lot, but in a romantic way.
There's nothing wrong about being riako of a real person, specially when you're not toxic or extremely delusional about the celebrity you love. I just appreciate him and have romantic feelings for him, and I like drawing my oc (Teru) with Kou or imagining if she was a real person too.
I don't think he loves me romantically, nor remembers who I am, and I'm okay about that. I just want to have fun and selfship with my beloved.
Even though I'm jealous when I see people that likes him romantically, I don't harass anyone, I just block and keep leaving my life.
I know a lot about him, not because I'm a weird stalker, but because I simply read his old blog/tweets. I never harassed him or made him feel uncomfortable, and I'm sure he doesn't care about woman that loves him like I do. Bandmen mostly sell their own image, and also baits the fans to make them think they could date them. Koutarou is one of them, so it's expected for a fan to fall for him.
It's just a silly crush, I don't treat him like a god or something. If he ever did something wrong, I would probably dislike him.
If he ever got in a relationship, and openly talked about it, I wouldn't care. He has the right to be happy with anyone he wants. If he got uncomfortable about his fans selfshipping with him, I would stop posting about Kouteru, and keep it totally private.
I post about Kouteru because I really like Kou, and since he influenced my life a lot, I want people to know how important he is to me.
I'm not hurting anyone when I post about my ship, and if you don't like it, feel free to do not interact and unfollow. I'm hyperfixated on Kou and I'm always tweeting about Kouteru.
Boundaries
As I already said, I'm hyperfixated and always posting about him. So if you think I'm weird, don't harass me or tell me mean things. Rude words won't make me stop having a harmless crush. Telling me I'm a parasocial weirdo won't change anything. Being a riako is automatically being parasocial. Every single one-sided relationship is parasocial when you like a fictional character or a celebrity. I'm saying this because there are a lot of annoying people on yumetwt that takes that too much seriously, and uses the term "parasocial" as a pejorative term, when in truth, EVERYONE from yumetwt is parasocial.
If you like him in a romantic way too, don't interact. I'm jealous, and I feel bad when I see people that love him. If I follow first, it's because I don't care that you like him too.
I'm his biggest fan. Not a single word will make me think otherwise. If you don't agree with me, keep it to yourself.
If you don't like him romantically, but thinks he's very handsome or any kind of compliment, don't praise him around me every single time. I might feel uncomfortable and misunderstand your intentions, and accidentally think you have a crush for him too.
If I blocked you because I felt uncomfortable about the way you act towards him, don't mind it. A block won't kill you and I'm doing this for my safety.