𓎢𓎟𓎡⠀⠀byi⠀⠀&⠀⠀boundaries⠀⠀ 𐂯
[]=['''|'''|'''|'''}-—⠀⠀⠀byi
I can be cold or harsh sometimes, usually for a reason though I don't always mean to be!! I'm naturally avoidant and withdrawn around people unless we're close. I'm easily irritated, sensitive and moody, and my empathy is really low outside of the people I'm attached to,,, I'm also just really socially anxious please don't force interactions with me.
my attention and energy are really selective. I don't give everyone equal access to me and I'm heavily focused on my favs. Otherwise I keep to myself. I rarely text first unless we're close, interactions overwhelm me. If you need constant attention or consistent conversations we're probably not compatible,,,
I am heavily disordered and struggles with other issues. I also display some narcissistic traits. I don't trust people easily either, especially if we had conflicts before,, don't think that means I dislike you. I also struggle with reading tone through text, keep that in mind!
I'm usually REALLY moody and paranoid,,, this makes me withdrawn or prone to snapping. I can be very depressive for days which makes me more avoidant,,, I have a very bad anger issue and get annoyed at almost anything, though I usually bottle it up but that only causes resentment so don't push my buttons please,,
I'm a questioning system, which affects how I function and interact! Though I often mask it, and usually you won't know who's fronting, be respectful and don't treat my alters like characters please,,, don't ask questions about my experiences either as it makes me uncomfortable.
[]=['''|'''|'''|'''}-—⠀⠀⠀boundaries
if I did something wrong tell me directly please,,, I don't want "hints", indirect messages or getting talked shit about, it pisses me off and will make me distant from you. Please don't talk badly about my favs to me either!
don't vent to me unless we're close. Sorry but I don't have the empathy or energy to comfort you,,
don't compete with me or mock my interests. Keep teasing and banter mild, use tone tags when necessary,, don't ragebait or provoke me or make excessively hostile jokes. Don't pressure me into doing something after I've already said no.
no sexual comments towards me or shipping me with anyone. No flirting unless we're in characters and don't seriously flirt,,, I won't reciprocate it.
please be cautious when discussing abuse, grooming, religion, systems, bullying or other sensitive topics around me!! Don't joke about them or try to get a reaction out of me.