all of my rentries
ENGLISH IS NOT MY FIRST LANGUAGE!!! I MIGHT MAKE MISTAKES!!
i use madeline and masa as names mostly, nicknames are okay! also please dont be afraid to call me by my fictionkins/irl's names, i absolutely love it when people do! really!!
i talk in caps if im close to you, or talking about something im excited about. im hypersexual and may make sexual jokes without realizing, please know i never mean them or any of my jokes in a way that crosses boundaries. i make kys/kms jokes and use slurs i can reclaim. i also make offensive/rude/"freaky" jokes. if you're uncomfortable with my jokes and the way i talk, please tell me, and i won't do jokes like that around you again /lh. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE TELL ME IF I DO SOMETHING WRONG/CROSS YOUR BOUNDARY INSTEAD OF HOLDING RESENTMENT FOR ME!!! PLEASE TELL IT SO I WONT DO IT AGAIN!!! PLEASE PLEASE!! COMMUNICATE WITH MEE!!!!! i don't get offended easily, or take things the wrong way and i understand that people have boundaries, so please don't hesitate to call me out!!
i am taken by my wonderful gf!!! so please dont genuinely flirt with me.
please ask before venting to me... its very awkward for me since im not good at comforting people. tone tags aren't needed, but you can use if you want to. familial terms make me very uncomfortable (eg. calling me your mom, sister etc) it just makes me uncomfortable due to past experiences. i dont have any other specific boundaries than these two just have common sense when interacting
i sometimes forget to respond to messages bc im very busy irl due to school... feel free to remind me of your message, really! i wont take any offense at all.
my social battery is always high, and i love talking to people, so don't hesitate to message me whenever you want about whatever you want!! really! ^o^
i pay attention to peoples statuses, so if your status has "iwc"/"iwec" or your social battery is low/under 70, if we're not close, i wont interact since i dont want to be invasive :-)
i most likely wont approach you if youre already with friends,, it makes me feel like im just barging in conversations no matter how close we are, please dont take it personally if you see me but im not coming to you, its just my own problems
if i want to be friends with you/get closer i will most likely add you through discord or any other messaging app, and i will most likely constantly try to interact with you, if this makes you uncomfy, please tell me in a respectful/kind way. i apologize from the bottom of my heart if this makes you uncomfortable, please respectfully tell me in dms, and i wont do it, i wont take it the wrong way so please don't be afraid of me getting offended
please dont be shy to get close to me quickly! don't think about "am i being too close too quickly?/am i being too weird?" when talking to me! i love it when people talk in all caps and are not afraid to be their true self! i don't judge at all, so don't feel the need to mask yourself around me even in our first interactions! C(-: YOU DONT NEED TO IWC/IWEC OR ANYTHING ELSE AROUND ME!!! BE WHOEVER YOU ARE!! EVEN IF WE JUST MET!! ₍₍⚞(˶˃ ᗜ ˂˶)⚟⁾⁾
i don't unfriend if we don't talk for a long while, so don't feel pressured to message me 24/7! feel free to reach out whenever you want
i understand when people respond late, so please don't feel forced to respond immediately! please don't unfriend me without saying anything if we were REALLY close, if you want to cut contact with me please tell me and we can talk it out in private, im understanding of peoples boundaries, so please dont feel trapped(i hope thats the right word) with me, just be respectful, and we can part ways respectfully and without a fight
i tend to copy the behavior with who im talking to, if this makes you uncomfortable, please tell me. i also ask lots of questions about almost everything i do because im very afraid of making others uncomfortable or driving them away from me. these come from my past experiences, own insecurities and struggles with feeling and not knowing where i belong and needing validation and that’s something im trying to navigate. i value my friendship with all my friends so much, and im sorry if i act and seem weird or distant because of these feelings. its not your fault
i dont have a dni
i block freely
my only dni is...
people ive blocked
i blocked u for a reason!!!
under 14 is on thin ice
i love tropfan