Kinky virtual dom ideas

This is just a list of the sort of thing I'd consider trying out in a 24/7 lifestyle dom computer program.

Core Mechanics

The 'game' revolves around a few core concepts:

  • Permissions: The sub is forbidden from certain activities, and must ask permission before doing them. (Notably cumming, and rubbing / stroking themself?)
  • Training areas: These are chosen by the user from a list of modules (chastity, feminisation, bondage?, anal, fellatio?, posture training, ..?). Each area has levels that progress either automatically (recommended for chastity) or manually. (Eg level 1 anal = sometimes asked to wear a small butt plug for 20 minutes. This builds up to wearing a larger butt plug almost 24/7.)
  • Training sessions: The user is expected to periodically do training sessions. I want these to be basically teases centred around one of the training areas - anal, posture training, edging & denial, fellatio, feminisation, etc. These sessions get harder as the user moves up the levels. Progress will please the mistress.
  • Tasks: Tasks are daily chores that the sub is expected to perform on that day. Tasks should ideally take 5-15 minutes to complete. A task is assigned every day. A lot of these should come from the training areas
  • Conditions: During the day and the night the sub will sometimes have to submit to conditions. Eg, not allowed to sit in chairs, wear particular clothing about the house (or none at all), go to bed wearing light bondage, wear a butt plug, etc.
  • Events: This is more of a wish-list feature. It'd be fun to occasionally have some gloomhaven city / road events to mix things up or give some background and texture to the game. "On Saturday / Sunday my friend is coming over and I want to show you off in a special double date teasing session. To do this event you will need to reach level 3 in fellatio by Saturday, then do the special session."

Platform

I'd like something that was web based. I think that is the right mix of sharable and accessible on the go. Some stuff I explicitly want to be multiplayer - eg, excuses are peer reviewed. This will also make progress and mistress happiness to be unhackable. (Though obviously users can cheat)

But I also want some stuff to be in VR (notably posture training). The web makes that harder. (Not impossible, but definitely harder.)

Story / Setting

I'm not sure here whether to give the game a strong setting or not. A well defined setting will not appeal to everyone.

But I think having background & story would be fun though. Maybe something optional? A little chose-your-own adventure style thing? Hehehe

Configuration

Play will start by the user setting out some basic configuration about what they're up for. They will be told that they can always voluntarily make things harder (/ try out anything they've previously said no to). But difficulty settings will be locked after the first few days. Changing setting to an easier mode without a good reason will make mistress disappointed in you.

For example:

The max chastity period will be set by the player ("Even once training is complete, when you are a good boy we will never demand that you to go without cumming for more than X consecutive days"). But the domme will sometimes ask if you'd be willing to perminantly increase the limit you've configured, in exchange for a one time reward! "You've been such a good pet edging so much today. If you let me push your maximum chastity time up by 6 hours, I'll let you cum tonight. In general I really love this sort of idea of making you trade off your short term desire against your freedom long term.

Timeout

Personally after I've been in chastity for awhile then finally get to cum, my mind is super clear. It might be good to use that for periodical reflection and reconfiguration. So, like, in the 24 hours after cumming, the sub is basically free. And free to change various settings if they decide the interaction with the program isn't healthy. After 24 hours have elapsed, the system locks in and should stay locked until the next time the sub is good enough to earn a release again.

This wouldn't apply to any concessions made during the previous period though - if they agree to bump the chastity period by 6 hours in exchange for being allowed to cum, then you can't lower it back down right after.

Also, the sub is always allowed (and generally encouraged) to make anything harder at any time. We like hard things.

Training: Chastity

The goal of the chastity training is to keep the sub obedient and constantly slightly aroused.

The sub can only cum when allowed. At first they're allowed to cum like, every day or two but slowly this is pushed out. After awhile the slave is only allowed to cum about once a week+ (Configurable). And even then, only when they've been very good. You want to be good for me, don't you?

I'd love to use this as a way to motivate the slave to do things they don't want to do. In the leadup to being allowed to cum they get pushed in their posture training, ass training or whatever. "I know you've been waiting a long time to cum. I want you to do a more extreme than normal edging session today to continue your training. If you do you'll be able to cum sooner. But beware - the more extreme version will eventually become what I expect from you normally."

I'm not sure if this provides a time bonus, or if its 100% required before they're allowed to cum at all. (And they're allowed delay intense training, but they won't be allowed to cum until they submit to it.)

Training: Teasing / Edging

The fantasy here is to be a little bit turned on most of the time. I don't know how practical that is, but I'd enjoy trying some sort of edging routine where I had to edge a few times every morning or something like that to remind the body what its missing out on. There's lots of edging scenes in TeaseAI & milovana that could be easily adapted.

This training activity adds tasks to the pool and training sessions.

  • Tasks: Small edging / teasing. "Take a few minutes and masturbate enough to bring yourself to the edge this morning. I want you to hold the edge for 10 seconds. After that, you are no longer allowed to touch yourself.
  • Sessions: Longer (eg 2hr) edging / teasing and, if chastity training is happening, denial. For this I'm imagining using lots of ideas from TeaseAI / Milovana webteases. There's lots of great stuff in there.

If chastity training is happening, there's a bunch of ways we could use edging in the lead up to being allowed to cum to mess with the sub.

For example, imagine the chastity period is a hidden range - you'll be allowed to cum in some range between 2-4 days. And it won't tell you what time it picked. If it picks 2 days, it'll tease you way harder during those two days. But then it'll let you cum. If its 4 days, the wait alone is part of the punishment. That means doing a lot of teasing and edging sessions might mean you get to cum soon, if you do it. Or maybe you're going to spend awhile in chastity no matter what you do. Who knows :}

Training: Ass.

The goal of anal training is to slowly stretch your ass (handle bigger cocks / plugs) and get the sub used to wearing a butt plug for extended periods.

The system would need to allow a lot of feedback - "I put my plug in last night, but after an hour I still couldn't get to sleep and I took it out". "I can't put wear a plug now; my ass is too sore". Stuff like that. Which basically tells the system it needs to slow down a little. Probably.

There's two variables to train here - time and girth. The sub would be expected to buy a few butt plugs of different sizes over the course of the training series. And then they could slowly work through them, building up toward the larger plugs.

The progression would be to start with like, wearing a small butt plug for 20 minutes or something. Then slowly build up from there every day or couple of days.

After awhile do occasional overnight butt plug training. And then eventually move up in size "Ok, we're going to try your larger plug. I want you to put it in and leave it in for at least 5 minutes, but I would prefer 30 minutes if you can make it that long. But, however long they can wear it is fed back in and used as a baseline for training. Then afterwards 1-5 report on how sore their arse is ^_^.

Maybe something like, track average amount of time and max time using current size. If after play pain is 4-5, adjust time demanded downwards. Then for tasks we want the sub to leave their plug in for "recent average + a few minutes", with adjustments for punishment (longer) and some randomness in there too. We should sometimes (randomly) ask them to put in a smaller plug in for a long time (all day) instead of a large plug for a short time. Heh or both.

This will add tasks, sessions and conditions to the pool:

  • Tasks:
    • Clean a room in your house wearing nothing but a butt plug
    • I want a quickie. Ride a dildo today, in the shower or bath if you're having one. Stroke until you're about 50% erect. After this you are only allowed to lightly touch your cock using the back of your hands. Impale yourself on my dildo 10 times. Once I'm done you are not allowed to touch yourself at all.
  • Sessions: You will have your ass fucked. This may be mixed in with some stroking, edging and self bondage. Again, lots of material on milovana to use / direct the player toward.
  • Conditions: This is the meat of this training module. The player will be asked to wear a butt plug while doing their daily life and eventually at night too. Start small (10 minutes). Later: 12 hours.

Training: Posture

The goal here is for the sub to learn to assume any numbered / named position and be able to assume that position immediately, without being shown.

VR is the best for this. Training works by supermemo, or some approximation. We use some standard kink submissive poses chart. Start with a couple of positions. Ideally, the sub gets into VR and is told a position's name. They have to assume that position. Start by showing them ~3 positions - and they have to learn to do those positions without being prompted what those positions look like.

Eventually we expect the sub to know all the positions on the chart by name, and assume them quickly. There are about 15 positions in some charts.

I want to do some light anchoring here:

  • the sub should be trained that the word "Pose", followed by any pose should result in the sub immediately assuming that pose.
  • In VR it would be fun to have vision flash red for each micro-punishment accrued (arse smacks at the end or something. Or an hour added to the chastity timer.) Forgetting a pose, or being slow to assume it will add 1 red flash.
  • And the opposite - assuming a pose immediately will earn a green flash, which is 3 cock strokes at the end (hahaha) or 10 minutes off the chastity timer or something.
  • Tasks:
    • Strip. Then Pose: X. Stay there for 5 minutes. During that time I want you to imagine that you're waiting to attend to me, and anticipating how I might play with you today. Describe your fantasy in 3-5 sentences. If you are doing this task for a second time, do try to be original.
    • Pose: Ready to please. Take a dildo in one hand and deep throat for 5 minutes. I will ring a bell when its time to stop. Then drink some milk or yoghurt if you can, to symbolise tasty cum in your mouth.
    • Pose: Attention, Nadu, Collar Me, Inspection, Humble. Have you forgotten any of those poses? (Reminder & punishment)
  • Sessions: Position training sessions are where you'll drill your positions in VR. Could mix this with edging, bondage, hypnosis, or other stuff.

Ref:
https://www.reddit.com/r/bdsm/comments/4kngwt/submissive_pose_chart_honour_may/
http://bestslavetraining.com/training-techniques/slave-positions/

Training: Feminisation

This training module would slowly build up confidence and skill dressing and moving around as a woman.

To start, we'll do really simple stuff like shaving your legs. Over time, I expect legs and groin to be kept perminantly shaved. Also the sub should know how to do:

  • Makeup
  • Own & wear heels
  • Own & wear dresses / skirts
  • Wigs?
  • Fake boobs & wear a bra would be great
  • Go out in public wearing a dress / skirt / in drag?
  • Stockings
  • Female gendered dances (twerking, belly dancing - shimmying, stuff like that)
  • Modelling (walk the walk, honey. Learn to sway those hips honey)
  • Answer to female names. This module might permanently change the pronouns by which the player is referred.
  • Tasks:
    • Shave your legs
    • Shave your groin
    • Put on your heels. Spend 5 minutes slowly walking around your house. Exaggerate the movement of your hips as you do so.
    • Look up a video on shimmying on youtube. Put on the most appropriate female clothing you own. Spend at least 10 minutes watching videos and trying it yourself. Rate how well you can shimmy out of 10. (Then if they give themself a really low score, we'll repeat this more so they have more practice. If they give themself a high score, maybe do occasional longer shimmying lessons).
    • Put on lipstick. Take at least 2 selfies. You don't have to do anything with the photos, but I want you to leave at least one of the photos on your phone for now. (Later we might repeat this task and take another photo. Compare with previous lipstick / makeup look)
    • Put on a skirt (/ heels / skirt + stockings / ...). Go to the supermarket / corner store and buy something.
  • Sessions: I'm not sure actually. Probably need to trawl through milovana for some content here.
  • Conditions:
    • While at home today you must wear stockings and a skirt.
    • Put on makeup. Leave it on today as long as you can

Training: Bondage

This is going to have to be self bondage. There's a few things they can learn, although I'm not sure how this module can progress and level up. More advanced ties? Longer in self bondage? I'd like the sub to eventually feel comfortable sometimes going to bed tied up & blindfolded (maybe also combined with a butt plug).

  • Tasks:
    • Use rope to tie yourself as shown in this tutorial / image. Leave the rope on for at least half an hour, as you go about your normal routine (eating breakfast, watching tv, whatever).
    • Game: Get naked, tie your ancles together and gag yourself. Crawl as best you can to touch the wall of every room in your house. (If you live in a big house, only the rooms on the current floor.)
    • Strip. Tie a shoelace around your cock and balls. Put on nipple clamps. Tie the shoelace to the chain of the nipple clamps, tight enough that when you're standing up it pulls a bit. Leave that on for 15 minutes while you clean your house.
    • Before one of your meals today, put on a belt or collar. Tie your non-dominant (alt: dominant) wrist to it. Leave that wrist tied up while you prepare and eat your meal. The tied hand cannot be used. This may be very frustrating, but it is a good learning opportunity - prey I do not ask you to eat a meal while you are deprived of both hands.
    • Put on a belt and tuck both hands under the belt behind your back. Imagine I have tied your hands there. You must complete (task??) before you will be once again allowed the use of your hands.
  • Sessions: No idea. Bondage can be combined with lots of other stuff (eg hypno scene while wearing shibari) but there's not a lot of sessions you can do on your own.
  • Conditions:
    • Nighttime: Go to bed with your ankles tied together. (possibly combine with butt plug)
    • Daytime: Wear shibari under clothing. Report how many hours you kept it on.
    • Daytime: Tie knees together, creating a hobble chain. Spend your day like that. Report number of hours.
    • Nighttime: Wear blindfold until the morning.
    • Daytime: Wear your collar all day.

Exercise and flexibility

This is a fun one.

We're going to get the sub fit. Ideally they will exercise every day, or every 2 days as time allows.

Basically, make a grab bag of different exercises that don't require any more equipment than a gym mat and a chair. Find some fun ones.

  • Task: Do 5-15 minutes of exercises
  • Session: We'll take the sub through a whole workout. Could sometimes lean on random fitness instruction on youtube.

Each exercise should be tagged or grouped with which body group / muscles it exercises. Each set should not contain duplicate muscle workouts.

After the exercise set, the sub names one set as the hardest set, and one which was the easiest. They will repeat the easiest set. The easiest set has its difficulty increased. The hardest has its difficulty decreased. They can repeat a second set in exchange for a small reward (and both repeated sets have their difficulty slightly increased)

Each set will have a difficulty (time or count) sampled with a known mean and some standard variation. This should probably interact with the difficulty changing somehow.

Oral training

Learn to give blowjobs and cunnilingus. I'm not really sure the best way to teach this, although there are some milovana webteases which focus on this stuff.

Hypnosis

It would be so fun to add long term hypnosis training into this whole thing, even though I'm still not entirely sure I want to do something like that. Sessions would be assembled hypnosis training sessions. If you used something modular like the Bambi series, you could automatically collate sessions from the audio tracks. And you could randomly either progress their training or reinforce previous lessons.

Service Sub training

Eg maid training? Like learn to cook and stuff.

Speech

This would work well with hypnosis. It'd be fun to have a few sayings that the slave would slowly memorise and be expected to recite each morning / each evening. Could do a slave oath type thing.

Events

I want to have random story related events happen sometimes, although this will depend on the setting. I like the model that they are drawn from a deck, and have some minimum time before repeating. Some events will only ever happen once.

Rules

  • No lying. Failing to report any transgression against these rules counts as lying.
  • No cumming without permission. (What about touching yourself sexually? Should this be banned, or explicitly allowed? Or restricted unless they've been good recently, in which case we let them touch themselves all over as a 'reward'?). Wet dreams are exempt (do not report them)
  • If you have broken a rule, you must confess to it when checking in before making any request. If you fail to do so, you must confess to both your transgression and confess for lying to me.
  • Check in before bed to receive instructions for the evening, and first thing in the morning to receive instructions for the day.
  • Don't do anything that would be physically harmful (eg a medical condition or something). You don't have to report failure to follow instructions if it is for legitimate self care.
  • If you just want a tease, don't use this tool. Use this only if you are willing to follow the instructions.
  • You can back out of any of the training programs if you need to. If you do, you will be locked out of that area again for 2 weeks. (And we will ask for the reason. And run the excuse by other humans).
  • Anal training can hurt, and it can interrupt sleep. You are welcome to say no to any request for further anal training, although refusal may be tolerated poorly if the request seems reasonable (eg its a part of the course that you've already mastered.)
  • You are welcome to express time limits to the software before instruction is given. Eg, if you have a busy schedule you can tell us that you won't have time to play today. Please make time for at least one long (~2h) session per week. For best slave training results, make time for a long session every couple of days.
  • After accepting a task I expect you to see it through. If you abandon a task or a session, it will reflect poorly on you. I will tolerate this happening infrequently, but if you make a habit of it I will be displeased. The exception to this is anal training. If you cannot continue anal training due to pain, tell me and we will fill our time together with something else. I want your arse healthy.
  • Tell me if you are sick (? this will be a bit of work to implement).
  • Tasks and punishments should be performed in the day they are assigned.
  • You decide which conditions apply while at work. But the harder you train, the more you will please me. You want me to be pleased.

Rules I'm not sure about adding:

  • Must ask permission to do restricted activities:
    • Look at porn
    • pee
    • snack
    • have sweetened drinks
    • goof off (video games, etc)

Exceptions

I'm really not sure how to handle exceptions to all of the above. PyMaster does this great thing where you can flag that you're sick. While you're sick it'll let you basically pee whenever you need to and stuff like that, but you can't cum. The nice thing about a system like that is that the sub never has to ask "should the rules still apply in this life situation". And ideally you don't want the sub to ever need to second guess orders or instructions, because then they'd (I'd) do so constantly whenever they just didn't want to do something.

So yeah, ideally, something like that for sickness. And something like that (not sure what) for "I'm at work" / "I need to sleep well tonight because I have an important day tomorrow". I guess pymaster solves that by making all tasks optional; and then if you decide not to do any of them you'll only get to cum about every week or so; with lots of dice rolls in there to make it spicy. And you can only pee every 3 hours, and take a shower every couple of days, and so on.

Punishments

  • Write out an excuse then judge it: The sub has to write a few sentences to explain their actions. Then (right after or later?) the sub is shown what they wrote and they need to judge whether the excuse is a good one. Actually a really fun way to do this would be to put the excuses subs make in a mixer and have other subs do peer review of one another's excuses, out of 5. And say why they gave that rating. Ahahahahah
    • Also with this we might have some calibration excuses / a rating rubrick. Although the randomness of human raters is also kind of great - who knows what they'll say!
  • Increase chastity time
  • Have to ask permission to pee for a couple of days (and mistress might ask if we can keep that up for the next week in exchange for a reward, then if we can do it permanently.)
  • Peer review a bunch of people's excuses. Might do this periodically as a task anyway.
  • Write out lines. "I am the property of Seph. I have no will of my own.". More lines if you make typos, etc.
  • Humiliations. Like, have to spend 1 hour today gagged.

Community Content

  • Pull from onesubmissiveact. Have someone in the community give you an act
  • Tasks could be be contributed by the community, then sometimes given out randomly. Whoever does them can rate them, and we can use aggregate ratings to weight the draw. This would make the content stay evergreen. And have a task which is "brainstorm a bunch of kinky tasks around the theme of teasing that you would enjoy being asked to perform"
  • The idea for the sessions themselves means we could use teases for lots of sources - Milovana, TeaseMe, TeaseAI, SexScripts, etc. But they wouldn't be themed correctly, use the internal variables (how extreme is the session, how happy is the mistress, how well did you do during the session). I'd love to somehow leverage both the great content already out there and the community to help build sessions. But I'm not sure how to do that

Inspirations

PyMaster - https://github.com/darkconsole/PyMaster . His brainstorming list for tasks & punishments - https://justpaste.it/fdiw

TeaseAI
Milovana web teases
VirtualMistress (gone)
SexScripts
Clothing picker (can't remember what this is called)
Dominatrix Simulator - https://www.patreon.com/deviantdev/posts

http://www.kinktalk.com/talk/archive/index.php/t-7398.html
http://www.boundforum.com/viewforum.php?f=10
https://forum.fenoxo.com/

https://milovana.com/webteases/showtease.php?id=37913

University of anal: https://www.faproulette.co/4458/university-of-anal/
sissy university: http://sissy-university.com / code https://gitgud.io/ChasteAnon/sissy-university

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