e2r graphic by yours truly. art credit is ObbyCAVALO on twitter. alt text: "byi" and "dni"

disclaimer

i have never found a dni before, as i block liberally.

however, this dni serves as a precaution for the
comfort of both
myself and that of others.

also, all my friends had DNIs and i felt left out.
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dni

basic dni criteria (racist, homophobic, transphobic, xenophobic, etc)

proship + comship

terfs & radfems

ai "artists"

anti neo/xenopronouns

anti neo/xenogenders

"weeabos"/"koreaboos" .... don't even

people who use names from closed cultures they're not a part of

detrans kink

endogenic "systems" / non-traumagenic "systems." you can't have a trauma-based disorder without trauma.

believes in "narc abuse" and other bs like that. i will maul you


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byi

i can be sarcastic at times — please do not take it personally.

i'm autistic & i use tonetags to help me convey / interpret tone.
if you're not comfortable with them for any reason, let me know
& i will not use them when interacting with you. i will never force
you to use them when interacting with me. however, please be
aware that i may ask for clarification on your tone if i'm unsure of
how it is meant to be interpreted.

i make "die" and "kys" jokes with close friends who are comfortable with them.

i make NSFW jokes at times. if you are not comfortable with those, please let me know.

i block liberally. it doesn't necessarily mean i hate you, but my time
on the internet is my own. if i don't want to interact with you or
see your content for any reason, the block button is right there.

iffy on some kin doubles.


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boundaries

i do not owe you an explanation of my identity, of my illnesses, or of anything else. paypal me 100usd first.

do not vent to me without asking if it's okay first. censor all topics relating to SH, SA, abuse, and eating disorders.
just because i agreed to listen to you doesn't mean i'll have good responses.

i'm okay with typing quirks. if i don't understand you or i need a translation, i'll let you know.

i'm okay with flirting, as a joke or otherwise (i'll probably assume it's a joke either way)

tone tags are appreciated but not always necessary. i will let you know if i need clarification on your tone.
do not overuse tone tags with me.


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wip !

leaving so soon?
yes, take me back.
bring me someplace else

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Pub: 18 Jan 2024 12:55 UTC
Edit: 27 May 2024 15:34 UTC
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