
Hello! You are reading Flame's extended!
I have a pretty basic do not interact criteria. Take a look at the basic dni. My other dni(s) is that you must be above 14 to interact with me as I am uncomfortable around younger children. Please do not interact if you are an ex-friend. Absolutely do not interact with me if you are a problematic shipper/toxic shipper, especially if you ship ANY minor x adult. If you romanticize any sensitive topic or mental illness then dni or get blocked/permanently hidden. Also dni if you ship Flame with anybody... Dni in general if you break CC's boundaries by shipping them. Please keep freaky jokes to a minimum if we're not decently close yet.
I prefer certain fandoms don't interact with me. MHA, HH/HB, and Forsaken avoid interacting unless you are a friend / friend of friend / have spoken to each other before, Idm if that's the case. Hoyoverse fans are fine. But do NOT glaze over Hoyo or any wrong action they have done. I do believe in separating the media from the creators but that does not mean I defend ANYTHING problematic the creator has done. I'm alright with most other fandoms. Feel free to ask my opinion on certain fandoms if you'd like to. Please refrain from dragging me into unnecessary fandom drama/wars, no I am not interested in knowing what the hell you all are arguing about</3 especially if it's about duos/ships. Would love to have more mcsm or mcyt fans to interact with me...
I love interacting with new people but I can be very apprehensive about approaching first if you are a new mutual/somebody I'm not very familiar with yet. Feel free to interact with me everytime I don't have 'DNI' as a status! If you came from ponytown specifically then feel free to c+h as I always am free for it. Unless I have dni in name, if you're a close friend / comf though then you can ignore DNT, TT/TD, IWC/IWEC, and are allowed to cover me, but if its DNI specifically then please still don't interact as im probably having a really bad time (applies to everyone unless my partner, hi love<3). If youre not that close with me yet then do not ignore the status I have in name and avoid covering me too often/too much. I swear I don't bite... I may act a little awkward at first during conversations and struggle to keep a conversation going. I am a chronic yapper though if we are close. Feel free to let me know if you need space!
I'm usually called by the names Flame / Flaine / Zam. Calling me by my kin names is very encouraged! Using my old names / less common names on me tho is selective, avoid calling me anything that isn't the first three/kin names if we are new mutuals. I mainly use and prefer he/him or any other masc terms AND the usage of neo pronouns. I do not mind the usage of they and it on me, but never refer to me with she/her. You can also give me nicknames! I love receiving them. Calling me petnames are also ok if we are decently close enough though I might react with tears or rabies at first slash pos.. I swear I'm very sane. I'm transgender ftm, and gay, very gay (might deny this though) I love men.
Fair warning, I have the worse online-offline schedule known to man. I can disappear up to 3 days maximum if I'm busy. If I'm gone for more then that means I'm on hiatus. I also tend to be clingy to friends. I think I may have attachment issues slash j. In ponytown, please don't feel bad if I move to sit with somebody else, you are also very much allowed to move and sit with somebody else, i wouldn't mind! I can also totally join you if you want me to. My energy levels randomly drop and raise so on some days I may prefer to stay around a certain area/certain people only if I feel unmotivated to interact. I'm always trying to make sure I'm there for my friends. I also have days where I just don't feel like talking, this results in me either being non-verbal, semi-verbal, or give dry responses. So please don't take my silence the wrong way :')
I'm multifandom! I'm mostly neutral about ships in any fandom and I seldomly do have ships I'm super passionate about and there's very few ships that I actually fixate on. As long as your ship isn't illegal or romanticizes sensitive topics then I'm most definitely cool with it, and specifically for MCYT fandom people reading this, I do not mind some ships as long as you are NOT breaking the CC's boundaries. I also have a lot of other interests but you can check here for them! I'm pretty open to learning new media, so yes you can definitely recommend some to me by my atabook. I'll make a kin list soon... idm doubles of some of my kins too much but I am protective over certain kins for my own personal comfort, that doesn't mean I'll harass you over them though. Just means they are the ones I relate to deeply/the most. I also prefer to avoid interacting with doubles for personal comfort as well, so yes I can respect it if you don't want doubles interacting but do NOT harass me for kins. I do not and will not harass anybody for liking my faves/kinning them. I block freely if I see something I don't like or my boundaries are being crossed.
I have a problem with managing my emotions and randomly feel very exhausted mentally. This may affect the way I interact with people, I try to not let it affect too much though. I have days where my mood is just not stable and I get frequent moodswings. Interact with care, but don't let that discourage you from joking around with me. I can take jokes I swear, I don't let my mood get in the way of that but do be mindful and know your limits. That aside, my humor varies and I usually adapt it to whoever I'm hanging out with. Usually I make tons of sarcastic remarks and 'dni' jokes. I sometimes need tone tags, I'd appreciate it if you used them as I can be a little slow to social cues and might need clarification. You're almost always free to interact with me. I'm usually spotted being homeless around the market, mcyt area, docks, or where ever the headaches that I call friends drag me. Though you'll most commonly see me around with him<3, little idiot I love very much, wherever he goes then there's a rather high chance I'm with him. If I'm not anywhere in safe 1 then I'm most likely off to events in regiments.
I am a really heavy kin of Flamefrags if it isn't obvious already... I may be fictkin but unless I diclose I am then consider me a heavy kin of him. I typically will avoid interaction with you if you kin him as I don't really like doubles of my heavy kins. I am also quite a big kin of PrinceZam and a few others I typically don't list unless asked. Don't feel offended if I don't int with you cause of this, it's simply for my own comfort, I don't want to feel uncomfortable when interacting with somebody. But really, the only supr heavy kins I have are flamefrags and zam, i most likely wouldn't mind everyone else anyway!
more coming soon ok? I update this as I go
