BYI & DNI


BYI

  • I make jokes that may be sensitive, or may be seen as offensive with my friends; such as "kys" or "die" jokes.
  • I use slurs that I can reclaim, if you use slurs you cannot reclaim it is an immediate block.
  • Unless we are close, it is required that you use Tone Tags around me. I cannot tell tone from strangers; rather than from close friends.
  • I block, unfriend, or hold attitude/grudge as I see fit.
  • If you flirt with me or anyone in my system you will be blocked.
  • If we dont talk often it doesnt mean we arent friends, we are more often talking with our partner system and platonic partner, if you wish to talk with us or me please initiate first text
  • Dont try to say I am my bodys age because I am not, I am ageless and I established this before I ever knew I was a system, I do not connect to my age.
  • Doubles make us uncomfortable. No matter if you are a Kinnie, Fictive, or Otherwise do not interact.
  • I (Calamity) am very connected to most sources/medias, it is asked that you do not reality check me, or try to do it to any of my headmates.
  • Just because I ask for my sourcenames to be used, doesn't mean I am doing it purposefully. It makes me feel like myself.
  • I have constant trouble with responding if we are not close, do not talk often, or you create constant trouble to it. Do not expect me or us to heal overnight from the trauma that has caused this.
  • If you have caused me trauma in the past, it will never be easy for me to trust you.
  • Do not call me delusional or any words close to it unless it is jokingly or you are close to me, thats a reality check and i dont appreciate it.
  • If you wish to know my sources and medias out of curiosity or respect feel free to ask.
  • During the week it is common for me to have episodes, it is asked you IWC even if I act as I usually do.
  • I am a holder of BPD and my system collectively carries it also, we are easily triggered if it contains my partner or our partner system.
    DNI
  • Map/Nomap
  • Racist
  • Homophobic
  • Transphobic
  • Terf/Swerf
  • Antisemitic
  • Ableist
  • Against Neos & Xenogenders
  • Proship/Anti-anti
  • Do not critically consume media.
  • Think that you know more than me or anyone, or you think youre easily entitled.
  • You treat alters like their source.
  • You cross boundaries willingly.
  • You romantically speak about my husband, it is easy to know who he is if you look at my sourcelist.
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Pub: 07 Dec 2022 05:11 UTC

Edit: 16 Jan 2024 07:18 UTC

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