Before you interact . . .
- autistic, use tts sparingly if at all
- do not use the tts /npa, /nm, /gen, genq, /nfta, /nf, /info or similar tts. HOWEVER /j, /hj, /ref, /s, /srs, /nsrs, /nbh, are okay to use SPARINGLY.
- i will ask for clarification on tone if i feel necessary.
- some of us struggle with 'flat affect' more than others, feel free to ask for clarification on tone.
- bpd / aspd + other unmentioned shit. we experience paranoia, some degree of psychosis, & low empathy as well, this affects our ability to interact with others.
- photosensitive + chronic pain
- non-human heavy did system, be mindful of memory loss & dissociative amnesia
- i / we used interchangeably
- slight pref. for singular terminology
- use current fronter's name over the collective name if known
- know us collectively before you know us individually— don't treat alters as separate people
- permanently iwc (interact with care / caution) as we are highly sensitive to anger
Boundaries . . .
Key
- yes
- ask
- no
- pings (if important), asking for front, 'parts' terminology, 'singular' or 'plural' language
- frqs, dms, venting, nicknames, petnames, calling me slurs or derogatory terms, kys/death jokes, flirting /p (if 18+), he/him or she/her pronouns
- (generally) tts, flirting /qp or /r, front request, asking about my trauma, they/them pronouns
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