My Identity ::
Here's an explanation of why I use the labels I use, just in case you're wondering why I am the way I am :-] 👇
• MY GENDER:
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-> I am not a binary man, I am fully agender. I only identify as a man in a NON-BINARY way! & because I mainly prefer being referred to with male/masc terms & pronouns.
• BASICALLY: I am a hypermasculine AGENDER person who likes & doesn't mind being percieved as male even though I don't identify as one.
(This label describes me pretty well!)
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• MY SEXUALITY:
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-> I am attracted to any gender/sex (except binary men), with a VERY HEAVY PREFERENCE towards women & feminine people. (I <3 femmes!)
(This label describes me pretty well!)
• I identify as bisexual due to its modern definition, which is "Attraction to more than one gender."
• I identify as a lesbian because I am HEAVILY attracted to women, and AREN'T attracted to men.
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• TL;DR:
I have a weird & unique relationship with my gender expression and sexuality,
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I am Agender, NOT a man. I don't mind being percieved as male, but I am still 100% Agender.
I am Bisexual because it means "Attraction to more than one gender."
I am Lesbian because I'm attracted to women & other non-binary genders.
I am NOT a man.
I am NOT attracted to men.
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• EXTRA NOTE:
It doesn't matter to me if other ppl think "it doesn't make sense." I don't care about making sense, I only care about being comfortable with my own identity.
Someone expressing themselves as however they please is not harmful either.
I am aware the term "lesbian" already includes non-binary gender identities aside from women, and adding "bisexual" wouldn't be necessary, but the reason I add bisexual it's to empathize my attraction to other genders, basically to be more specific. If you assume I'm attracted to men JUST because I am bisexual, that's on YOU.
(Besides, it's my identity. I can do whatever I want! I don't care how "unnecessary" it is, lol.)
FOR THE RECORD: Please do NOT suggest to me any microlabels that YOU think suit me better. I am very comfortable with my current labels, and do not care about what other people think.