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Hello, as you may know, I'm @Ushijima on Alterspring. I made this Rentry to clear up some assumptions people in Alterspring made about me despite me not being active in it, I am not looking for forgiveness but rather for just the people to stop harassing me over some stuff I did in the past. I just want a peaceful life pretty please? I'll try to update this regularly but it's not guaranteed.
Also if you guys wanna talk shit about me, use the right terms next time! I go by Jae and Mofu, and my pronouns are Shi/Hyr! I also use Feminine terms. I see a whole lot of you use Neutral terms on me and I don't like that. Thanksies!
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Pedophilia Vs. Predators
Firstly, Pedophilia is a type of psychiatric disorder/mental health disorder that falls under the Paraphilia category. It involves persistent and intense sexual interests and fantasies towards children and minors. Having Pedophilia does NOT mean the person has acted on these urges. Infact, most people with Pedophilia choose to get help instead.
Sexual Predators on the other hand are people who engage in sexual behavior to exploit others. Their victims can range from minors to even adults, but mostly children. This is where grooming, coercion and force come into play. This is usually defined by harmful actions, not just thoughts. Yes, some predators might have pedophilia but that doesn't excuse all of you to stereotype Predators as Pedophiles.
I am neither of them, I'm not diagnosed with Pedophilia, and I'm not a Predator. All interactions I've had with minors are all SFW.
"Ran, why did you include this in the Rentry?" Because I am tired of you people throwing around the term "Pedo" without knowing what it actually means.
Platonically dating with a 13 year old
Ok this is the part you guys are probably excited for. A 17 year old platonically dating a 13 year old? Wow! I'll be calling him Towa for this.
I want you guys to explain what "Platonic" means. It's a term for being affectionate that is ENTIRELY non-romantic and non-sexual.
"But Ran, you shouldn't be interacting with minors at your age!" I've known Towa back in 2024, I was 15 and he was 12. At that time (up to this date), we NEVER had NSFW interactions, only SFW cause he knows that I am uncomfortable with such.
"But Ran! Why would you call him as your boyfriend?" I call people im close with boyfriend and girlfriends in an affectionate way and ina platonic way. But let's face it, I was being careful and that led me to adding "platonic". Because I know you guys would be attacking me if I didn't put "platonic" whatsoever. I removed the terms from my Rentries because I know I will get attacked for it. No, I am not a pedophile, and more surely I am not a predator.
Also check this out -> Towa's Response
Dating Izu/Astra
Me dating Izu, who's apparently a "pedophile" and a "groomer" described by you guys. I have seen her part of the story and It was my choice whether I should believe her or whatever sob story they've made. I chose to believe her because honestly? She's been getting checked regularly at the hospital and she's getting help. If you guys don't call that progress, then honestly I don't know what. I chose to believe she can still change as a person despite everything she has done. Now, I know what I was getting myself into but I never paid it any attention. I don't support the actions she's done in the past, I'm just helping her recover. Along with Towa, I've known her since 2024 and I know what she truly is.
TL;DR
- I am not a pedophile nor a predator. I have stated above what those two terms mean and I am not any of them.
- Platonic means non-sexual and non-romantic. Every interaction I've had with Towa are all SFW because I am uncomfortable talking about NSFW stuff with a minor.
- Yes, I've known Izu/Astra personally. I am aware of her actions and I chose to acknowledge her because I know she's been getting help medically.
(^ reworded something)
If you guys wanna talk to me for more info or you guys just wanna hate on me, send it to my Atabook. I would be very happy to communicate over some unnecessary drama. That's all, thank you. I will be most likely be stepping down from RentryCord until my name has been cleared (in which, probably not because I'm still with Izu after all). Sending love and peace to everyone who read this. At the end of the day it's just a URL on a website that can get deleted at any moment. — ☘️