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greetings and welcome to my extended information. I am known as capricious, nurse, or xiao, the latter of which you may use if you are particularly close to me or if you previously knew me by that name. I exclusively use feminine pronouns and terminology, and I ask that you refrain from referring to me with "theythem" pronouns. "hehim" pronouns are acceptable depending on the context and your relationship with me. my sexuality remains unlabeled, and I am happily married to my wonderful spouse, who is the enid to my wednesday.
please take note of the following important information about me prior to engaging in any interactions;
- please be advised that you may experience delayed or, at times, no response from me. I prioritize my spouse consistently.
- I am formally diagnosed with bpd, along with other mental health conditions, as outlined in the accompanying rentry. please proceed with caution when interacting with me, as I may experience rapid mood fluctuations.
- I am a person with tendencies toward obsession and possessiveness and I am managing mental health challenges. my way of thinking differs significantly from that of others.
- I do not object to idolization or praise from others; however, I kindly request that such expressions remain within reasonable bounds. should they become excessive, I may find it necessary to block, ignore, or confront you.
- I must insist that you refrain from flirting with me, whether in jest or earnest. this is a firm and non-negotiable boundary that has been repeatedly disregarded, and I am no longer willing to tolerate such behavior. I find flirting, in general, to be inappropriate, and it causes significant discomfort for my partner as well.
- should you find yourself blocked by me, it is most likely for a valid reason, or due to my discomfort in your presence. while I may, if necessary, provide an explanation, it is not my obligation to do so. I am under no duty to owe anything to others.
- I do not employ tone tags in my communication, nor do I wish for them to be used when addressing me. should any clarification be required regarding my tone, please feel free to ask, and I will extend the same courtesy in return.
- at times, I may experience a complete lack of empathy or remorse, as I can become entirely apathetic. this is a condition that I often find beyond my control.
- I have no desire to associate with the rentry community, nor do I wish to engage with its members, except in cases related to rentry commissions. additionally, I prefer not to interact with individuals who are chronically online or exhibit immature behavior.