VRCHAT BOUNDARIES
THESE R FOR PEOPLE I MEET THRU VRC OR VRCHAT. LOOK AT OTHER
BOUNDARY PAGES LOCATED ON MY MAIN RENTRY, USE COMMON
SENSE FOR BOUNDARIES ON THIS PAGE EVEN IF UR NOT FROM VRC :P 
[CATAGORIES; #1 - DRAMA , #2 - RELATIONSHIPS]
#1 -- DRAMA
if im friends w/ someone you dislike, don't tell me in an effort to make me drop them,
tell me so i know to not invite them when i'm around you. if you feel the need to try
and pressure me into getting rid of someone for no good reason other than you hate them,
i'll drop you instead of them.
if you dislike me, or anyone i closely associate w/, don't go thru the long process
of making up and spreading rumors about me. i have no time to deal w/ someone being
pissed js bc you don't like me. if you have a problem with me, either block me and shut up,
or set up a time and day w me so we can talk abt what i did wrong nd reach some form of
neutrality rather you js being pissed
if someone i am friends with is a horrible person like a rapist, pedophile, or sexual assaulter,
let me know. if these are just (a) RUMOR(s) you've overheard, get the person saying them
to tell me personally. I WILL ASK THE PERSON YOU ARE ACCUSING FOR THEIR SIDE, I
WILL NOT RIGHT AWAY BELIEVE YOU DUE TO THE "GUILTY BY ASSOCIATION"
MINDSET THAT VRC PLAYERS TEND TO HAVE. this is not to say i am calling
EVERYONE who outs people as those horrible things to be a liar, this means
i will get my own proof.
I DO TALK SHIT ABT PEOPLE! What I say to others, or what you say to me, will remain
my knowledge and your knowledge unless you run your mouth 2 people. I will tell you to your
face if you are doing something that genuinely upsets or angers me, I will not go behind your
back to talk shit and NOT confront you.
#2 DATING, FLIRTING, RELATIONS
i have a partner and im NOT looking to date whatsoever, especially people from vrchat.
individual alters can have their own relations with people, romantic, platonic, nd nsfw.
that is as far as it can go; multiple alters can date alters from the same system as another
person. most alters are NOT polyamorous, if you get with an alter, tell them if u r or rnt.
we will not become partner systems with anybody until we discuss it with our boyfriend.
if you are obsessive, overly sexual or romantic, don't even think about asking us out. we
won't give you a definite answer right away, you will have to wait
we struggle with multiple disorders, some affecting us more than others, and some that
will affect any relationship we have; friendship, romantic, or sexual. we are not
dependent on people, we are the complete opposite. we interact selectively, and sometimes
we go on DNI(UC) just because we're bored or just dont want to talk to people. we aren't
easily upset but we are easily angered and frustrated. if you cannot handle your own issues
and your own personal life, don't expect to be able to handle ours. do not prioritize our
mental health over yours, because we can be mentally draining at times.
if you are going to flirt with us, do not have a huge age gap between us. if you
are flirting right when we meet, we will unfriend you or block you. do not flirt with us
or try to date us the second we've met, that's weird, uncomfortable, and not how a
relationship works.