go home ,⠀original

links are labelled accordingly and lead to easy to read pages
links out of rentry are labelled as outlinks

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table of contents
yes ,⠀ask ,⠀conditional ,⠀no
do not interact ,⠀before you interact

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yes

source talk
outlink: hy/hymn pronouns
romanizing names
link: requesting rentry temps
repeated messaging
spamming w/o ping
asking for tone words or tonetags
asking for tone tags instead of tonetags

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ask

nicknames (psys or close friends are exempt)
direct messaging (ppl already in our dms are exempt)
adding on sp
calling (will probably say no due to vocal dysphoria)
rude/offensive jokes

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conditional

flirting (16-18 only)
suggestive comments (16-18 only)
petnames (friends only)
flirting w ppl specifically bc of source (friends or psys who are 16-18 only)
spam pings (friends only, not very many unless it's urgent please)
requesting someone to front (close friends can req anyone and strangers can req an admin, but in both cases we may not succeed and may not want to try for personal reasons)

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no

mentioning weed, drugs, or alcohol in a pos way
telling me if you're drinking (esp if you're under your country's drinking age)
spam pings
using they them for us collectively
link: asking/telling us not to use ttgs. they aren't just for you
fakeclaiming (including as a joke)
link: jokes about speeding, car accidents, etc
referring to our headmates as "my alters"
mentioning body parts related to podophobia (search it up, no its not a fear of kids)

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do not interact

younger than 14 or older than 19
endos
pro-endos
endo-neus
source-shamers
if you are high, drunk, using weed, or using non-prescription drugs
pro 420 / pro-weed / pro-cannabis
drug user, smoker, vaper etc w/o intent to stop
you hate apex legends, science fiction, or star wars (except sequels. that's valid)
you think you can decide whether or not an introject is their source
you police names constantly
you race check people
christian who brings it up regularly (sorry)
you think double means same person or are offended by the term double being used literally when not @ you (as in someone with the same source character)
you use the r slur

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before you interact

adhd
autistic
suspected npd & bpd
c-did
amnesia
high apathy
low empathy
depression
social & gen anxiety
podophobia (search it up; hint, it's a phobia of a body part)
i tend to reply slow, especially when busy
i regularly double message people i consider friends
we can't be friends or more w/ people who don't int often since we need attention regularly
we don't have many friends
please be okay with switching topics since we struggle to talk about things we can't empathize/sympathize with or understand
disappearing for a short time doesn't mean we don't want to talk to you, we just have memory issues
we may text after days, weeks, or months missing
please tell us if we do something wrong; we may not realise initially

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Pub: 10 Oct 2025 18:45 UTC

Edit: 14 Oct 2025 02:23 UTC

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